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Sexual Health Why does he keep giving in to the unprotected sex if he doesn’t want to get me pregnant?
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I don’t need people to judge here I’m just simply looking for some advice. This guy and I we have sex sometimes and lately I haven’t been on any type of birth control. We have had unprotected sex more than once. He claims he doesn’t want to get me pregnant but yet he has had unprotected sex with me multiple times. If he doesn’t want to get me pregnant why do you think he keeps giving in to having unprotected sex?
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26 71Cuz sex is better without condoms , condoms suck , yes he is taking the chance of getting you pregnant but he might also have a vasectomy and not tell you about it
Neither my boyfriend or I want children but we don’t use condoms. I was on the birth control pill before I got my IUD so it wasn’t totally unprotected but that’s how him and I prefer things. He’s cool with using condoms but it just never came up in the moment 🤷🏼♀️
heat of the moment.
doesn't like the feel of condoms. since sex often feels a lot better without one on for both people.
doesn't like to pull out or not used to pulling out since you were on birth control in the past.
Because it feels good. Better question is why isn’t he a real man and get a vasectomy?
Unprotected sex always feels better on the guy. Condoms do not give me anytype of pleasure at all.
It feels better I think
It does... But the risk of STD's is far greater than that.
He is presumably a wreckless thrill seeker.
Unless you want a world of pain, don't let him.
cos he expects you to take all the preventitve maintenance. ultimately it starts with him.
Because it feels so much better without, and he's hoping you pay attention to your cycle enough to know when you two can get away with no condom.
In this day and age do people, other than parents that is, really judge others like it's the 50's? I was under the impression that the world was more enlightened and was not supposed to be so judgmental. Guess I was mistaken. I have used a condom maybe one or twice. Not the smartest thing to do. I don't have to worry about getting someone pregnant. But thevm std's is something else. What Im getting at is Russian Roulette is fun until a bullet finds its way into the chamber pointed at you.
It's all HIS fault! Start picking out names...
Most of the time ejaculation is interrupted by condoms (the ring which is on the shaft), but still always use Condom to avoid STD's.
Fetish maybe? Or just doesn't want to wear one.
But the question should also be if you don't want to get pregnant why aren't you on birth control and why do you keep having unprotected sex with him? If you did get pregnant you'd be just as guilty as he is for not being protected.
1. Because using protection is less pleasurable for him.
2. by the way, do you want to get pregnant? Because if you haven't been on any kind of birth control then sooner or later this unprotected sex of yours will definitely going to make you pregnant.
Yes I do want to get pregnant and for some reason I think he secretly does want me to.
Then there's nothing to worrying about. Maybe he too wants a baby (like you said) just can't tell you that.
Because he's a guy he's thinking PUSSY. For a lot of guys once you get them to that certain point they're brain takes a break and their dick is running the show. Not all guys but an awful lot of them. Why not just ask him.
It's either the excitement of playing Russian roulette or he can't stay away from u bc ur that good. Not judging, but how come u don't stop him? Unless you honestly don't care if u were to get pregnant. (again, not judging) I had a best friend a long time ago who purposely messed up her b. c. She wanted a baby, but wasn't trying and could justify in her head if it were to accidentally happen. Well, she won. She got pregnant, and she lost, dude didn't speak to her or the baby girl for five years, and I read on a social media site that he regretted his bitterness of taking it on the little girl. So be carefully
because guys don't like to bag it up and can't think straight when they got a hard on
That's why I may end being a father 😂😂 for classification not sure who the dad is, and no I'm not with her anymore
If you're not trying to get pregnant, then you need to be taking SOME precautions. If he doesn't like condoms, and you got issues with the pill for whatever reasons, there are many other SCIENTIFICALLY ACCURATE options. But stop jumping without a parachute, that's just tempting fate.
Get a IUD or on the pill. Unless you WANT to get preggo.
For the same reason that you want to have unprotected sex: it feels better.