Why does he last long in bed?

friends with benefits lasts very long in bed and it has made me very insecure. Every time I open my eyes he's staring at me but then looks away.. He isn't shy when it comes to eye contact but when he lasts long it makes me insecure. Feels like I'm not attractive enough or doing thing right?
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  • Men are usually always horny and typically can rise to the occasion but sometimes we've got stuff going on in our head too. Sometimes we can't stop thinking about some stuff and just get in the moment period and sometimes we can't figure out why we can't come so fast.
    This used to happen to me a lot and I was pretty insecure about it myself. I've always been incredibly attracted to my wife, like she gets me hard when she touches my hand. When we would have sex sometimes I would come before I even got in there so I would just eat her p**** until I got hard again. But there's a little thing guys do every now and then called missing your nut and then you can go for really really long time because once you miss it it's like that train left the station and it is so hard to come after that. You feel like you're right on the edge the whole damn time. I would get in my head be like come on m*********** it's right there..
    So instead of me coming really fast and her being upset I just wouldn't come at all and we would have sex for as long as she could take it which is only about 2 hours 3 hours tops and then she would feel like s*** for not being able to get me to cum even though this whole situation was my doing it's very hard to convince a woman that.

    So that's what my situation was dealing with that but there are so many other reasons.. maybe try changing it up. Like have sex for a little while and then get down and give him head come back to a different position back to the blowjob. Also we can tell when you're not really into it and that really makes it difficult as well.

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  • You are doing nothing wrong. Some guys take longer to orgasm. Maybe it is because he masturbates a lot when he is not with you. How often are you two having sex? Maybe try some more foreplay while naked. Get him close to an orgasm with a slow handjob.. he will love it! Your thoughts?

Most Helpful Girl

  • Why are you complaining? I'd keep him around as God's gift

    • Not really complaining just didn't know if it was because not attractive enough for him or something

    • He might be a natural.

    • I'm sure you're just over thinking it.

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  • He's probably lasting that long because he's forcing himself to do it. I don't think he would be fwbs with you if he wasn't attracted to you.

  • He is probably doing what a friend with benefits should do - - - holding off to give you lots of pleasure before he cums!

  • Perhaps he cares about you enough to want to control himself, so he can satisfy you!
    Hit me up if you want to talk about it

  • Ask him not us

    • Lmao no

  • Shouldn't you be happy instead?
    If he didn't find you attractive he wouldn't have or continue having sex with you. Back to your question, I think you guys are probably having a lot of sex therefore he can easily control himself because the pleasure is not exciting him like it would be if he hadn't have sex with you for say more than a week.

  • That's not you being unattractive, a vagina is a vagina. That's him exercising probably over decade of practice concerning self control.

  • Maybe he's like me and wants you to cum first

  • Do you ejaculate before him?

    • Yes, so many times

    • I guess he has good stamina