Why does he move my hands away during a bj?

[Anonymous]

I'll be honest, I feel like I dont have a clue what I'm doing during a blowjob, and am making it up as I go and whatever his reaction is at the moment. I just want to know why he moves my hand out of the way during the blowjob. At moments I will just use my hand to keep his dick up to make it easier and just makes it a bit more steady, Other times I will just follow my hand along with my mouth. Why does he move my hand away, he will gently hold it there to keep me from holding it. Just a curious question to make sure I'm not doing something wrong.

[FMJ_Guy]

Not into Bjs, but I am guessing he moves your hand, so he can go deeper, into your mouth, thinking you are using your hand for keeping him from going too far, and making you gag!!
I hate this act, personally, and I think it is very degrading to women, so I don't do it, with the women I am with.
To me, as a MAN, what little pleasure, isn't worth the degradation, to her, on her knees, doing it. I find it offensive, and NEVER do it with any Lady I am with. I respect her too much.

[Yothisisaaccount]

I will answer your question because I know the answer because it also bothers me when a girls hand is in the way. He wants you to go all the way down until your tung is touching his dick where the balls start, that part of the dick underneath right next to the balls is the place that feels good when getting a blowjob while going deepthroat , it feel even better if you move your tung sideways while doing it also don't take breaks it's even better if u can continue and make him hard a second time, other things you can do to make it better is touching his stomach while doing it. Another tip that can be fun is handcuff your hands on ur back let him doggy style than flip u arround on a pillow and mouth fuck you. You might learn more what he likes. Me personally I find blowjobs way more pleassurable than sex there's no better feeling in the world.

[Anonymous]

There's plenty of good answers here, but it could also be a Dominance thing especially since he's holding your hand to keep it away. If he's like me, It might actually feel very very good when you use your hand but he has a kinky line of thought about "making" you try to please him and service him with nothing but your *insert naughty names for a sexually active girl as adjectives* mouth

[Anonymous]

Cuz he can jerk it himself and wants a sucky sucky not jerky jerky. Some guys like both. Also jerking it together can make a man cum faster and he wants you to suck it longer.

[harryrai4]

Yes you are right

[redcheeks]

He wants to see you properly, and use your mouth not hands

[firaxin]

Could be you're squeezing too hard without realizing. Or it's too dry so you're creating painful heat friction. Or the angle is unnatural (to make a handjob mimic how masturbation feels, you'd have to be standing behind him), or you're going to make him cum too fast and he wants to last longer, or he wants to be able to face fuck you and your hand is hindering his thrusts, or he wants a better view of your beautiful sexy face.

[markscott]

He may want to see his cock in your mouth, or he may think your hand is keeping you from taking more of it in your mouth, or he may just want you to suck, with no hand, so he lasts longer. When you, as you say, use your hand to make his dick more steady, and to make it easier, seems a very normal way of going about a bj.

[CapnHawk]

Could be your hand is cold to the touch. When in doubt, ask him.

[funguy90]

He probably will cum faster when you do that. He wants to feel you using just your mouth so he can enjoy it longer. It's not that he doesn't like it but I would guess it's because he wants to last longer.

[GingerGuy]

Ask him! Have no idea. Only he can answer.

[Dargil]

He's one of those dumb guys who think hand use compromises a blow job. The perfect handjob is actually "suck and stroke". I rarely say this but you are 100% right and he is 100% wrong.

[Zebadee88]

Ask him!!! Everyone has different preferences

[Keimpe]

I think he wants to see you do it, the feeling is intense and to see what you do can excite him even more.

Personally, my balls are sensitive, and do not like to be held