Why does he want me to call this guy I’m talking to during sex?

So I’ve been talking to this guy for two years. Tbh I really liked him, but he clearly just wants to hook up and we live far apart. We have finally decided to hook up soon, but I told him I’m starting to see someone else and that We have to hookup before I become official with the other guy ahaha. But now he’s calling that guy my boyfriend and said he wants to have sex with me and make me call my boyfriend after. Like why? Wtf.

Updates:
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He is also saying he wants me to suck his cock while I call him like omg
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Another update now he’s saying he wants to spit in my mouth and I’m a slut ahhhh
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Superb Opinion

  • That is kinda weird. Are you sure you want to hookup with this guy when you are about to start a new relationship? I'm sure all he wants is sex,,,, is that all you want also? If so use condoms so you don't pass an sti to the "new" boyfriend. What are your thoughts?

    • Honestly I wanted to date him but I’m starting to realize he just wants sex. But I’m very attracted to him and have never had a casual hookup, so I want to do it. But I’m nervous.

    • Well if u have to get the hookup done asap. Have the guy screw you thill you both are exhausted and then move on. But be careful because if the sex is good you may have feelings and want to do it again which will make relationships difficult

Most Helpful Guy

  • He watches too much porn. There's some niche porn where women are on the phone to their boyfriend whilst cheating on them. Sometimes they tell the boyfriend, sometimes they just laugh as she lies to him.

    Not sure what the appeal is, presumably feeling like a big man mocking a guy while you screw his girlfriend.

    If that floats his boat it's fine to have as a fantasy, seems pretty douchey to try to get you to act it out with him though.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Cause he wants to ruin you! Some adore drama!

    Your getting taken he wants to ruin that! Hurry ghost him before he tells your guy that you wanna bang before being official!

    Why do you want this guy any ways forget about him after that!

    • He likes cuckold fantasy

    • He wants to be dominant humiliate you and use you before your new relationship. Do you like it or hate it!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • He obviously wants to make your new boyfriend jealous of him because he's having sex with you -- and as a guy, I think that's unbelievably exciting! I hope you'll let him do this!

  • Could be a fetish

  • I guess he likes the idea of cuckolding. It seems like you do as well. I think it is better to go into a relationship with clean hands.

  • Because he wants to do something risky and dangerous. He doesn't care if he fucks up your connection with this other guy because he wants to keep having access to you.

  • Im guessing he likes cuckold fantasy where is the dominant.

  • So he can say you cheated. Which makes sense, since that's all you're doing with the two, USING THEM

  • I don't know, that's weird

  • That's more of a taboo thing... It would probably give him a sense of pride to be fucking someone who's cheating behind their boyfriend

    A sense of pride that he's so better than your boyfriend (as he says)

    Probably he also into degrading fantasies

  • Seem like he get upset or get angry when you said you need to see other guy, he might think you are using him for sex..

  • Because he wants to fully exploit his cuckhold fantasy. What I don’t get is why you’re getting into a relationship with a guy you don’t like in the first place though.

    • Well I’ve like this guy I’m planning to hook up with for two years now. We just live in different states. I basically told him this is his last chance before I move on because I have met someone else that I am starting to like.

    • If you are starting to like someone, you shouldn’t start off the relationship by hooking up with someone else. It means you don’t actually like the guy so don’t waste his time and start a relationship on a lie and fuck him up. It’s selfish.

    • We aren’t even in a relationship yet. I warned the other guy that I’m moving on LOL.

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