Everyone wants to feel wanted and desired, and for men, their sexual prowess is a big part of their ego and identity and self-worth. For example, a big part of the reason why "incels" are so angry is because their lack of ability to get sex from women essentially means that women (and society in general) are saying that they aren't important or valuable enough to warrant having sex with. It's not hard to understand why people wouldn't want to be told that they had little worth, right?
Anyway, your guy gets very aroused by the idea that you want him and need him sexually. It makes him feel desired and powerful and sexy. It's a lot like women who dress "slutty" and love the attention they get from men as a result - they like feeling desired. It's a pretty common thing, and almost everyone would like at least a bit of this from their SO.
It strokes his ego, makes it more fun, and makes him feel more manly if you tell him you love his cock, need it in your, he's so f------ hard, etc. However, it's not fair to you if he expects you to be talking every moment. Many women need to do some concentration to get their orgasm. So talking to him like that is OK, as long as he doesn't expect you to over due it, or if it interferes with your orgasm.
He talks to me too. Whatever I say to him I mean 100%. How do I know he means what he tells me?
Asker: There is the issue of being honest, and the issue of sexual activity. Not all sexual activity needs to be 100% honest. What I mean by that, is I might say to my woman, you are the most beautiful girl in the world. She may indeed be very beautiful to me, but it's very unlikely that she is the most beautiful woman in the world. The same goes for sex talk. She may say my dick is as hard as a rock. No, it isn't as hard as a rock, definitely not. It may be very hard for a dick, but no dick is anywhere near as hard as a rock. Same goes for when you are talking about his dick, the way he wants you to. Of course, the comments can get ludicrous, and you may be uncomfortable saying some of things he wants you to say. So, if you are uncomfortable saying them, then don't. But when having sex, tell him what he wants to hear, within reason. It will make sex better for both of you. And as far as, can you believe him, that is question you can answer better than I can. But if you are looking for complete honesty, you don't always find it when a guy wants in your pants, and you never find it with some guys who want in your pants.
What's the appeal, Really? You can't figure that one out yourself?
Makes him feel powerful, wanted, needed. Gets him off, basically.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Sounds like he's a little insecure and needs sexual affirmation from you.
Possible reasons:
He’s watched too much porn, is either simply imitating it or feels obligated to say it.
Is insecure about his performance in bed.
Views you as a sex object.
Finds sex with you boring so he needs you to talk dirty.
Not confident without verbal confirmation maybe
He's somewhat insecure and need reassurance?
Because that's how we are programmed
Fuck off. You think all guys are good here same?
Are the same
If you repeat that many times, you would start believing it, too
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