Why does interracial fetishization seem increasingly common nowadays? Especially with white guys towards Asian girls? Is it normal that it bothers me?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Ngl whenever I see interracial fetishization stuff it just really bothers me regardless of who is doing it.

I’d argue white guys tend to be the absolute worst with interracial fetishization, especially with Asian women in particular.

And to a lesser extent maybe there are some white girls that like having sex with black guys, but I wouldn’t say its anywhere near as noticeable.

I mean there are anonymous white guys on this site who disparage and trash white women regularly while elevating Asian women on pedestals and I just find it extremely cringe honestly.

I’ve seen maybe the occasional question from a couple white girls on this site about black guys but the incel white guys talking about Asian girls far outnumber them.

[Effably]

The easy answer to your question is probably that rather vocal online groups are the ones taking the strongest liking.

That aside racial fetishes are an awkward gray area many times.

Lets say I find the Sami (indigenous-sort of, people in Scandinavia) incredibly attractive. Maybe their more group focused living and closeness to nature, at least compared to me, is something I admire and want to have. Nothing here is wrong. Of course I can like those qualities and liking a certain look is no worse than a preference for blondes, brunettes and so on.

Now if I was to look exclusively for Sami partners that again isn't really wrong. It is what appeals most to me and there is no reason I would treat a potential partner any different because I find them extra attractive and am interested in their heritage and way of life.

Of course there is a point where it becomes a fetish. Where it is no longer healthy. But that is, outside of a few situations, a very difficult line to define.

[WhiteBoyChill]

You don’t find it incredibly fcking weird reading what the white guys on this site continually say about Asian women?

[Effably]

I am not exactly denying that extremes exist. But generally the extreme part in what they write is not in the praise for their ethnicity of choice but in the insults and pent up negativity towards the others. Would you not agree?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Not really. Because they see Asian women as solution to the problem even though the biggest issue is just them being toxic assh*les no woman would even want to date

[bean2k21]

It's probably some twisted, mind-fuck conspiracy plot by the Asians. They all want to have a white kid and they know two Wongs can's make a white.

[alice55]

On France Asian girls are seen as weird and flat so not popular at all. White men here don’t date interracial it’s more women that does it with arab and black guys but it’s very rare.
only white guys that date Asian women are old racist m’en that can’t get white women they used to marry Ukrainian and russian before but they’re not popular anymore they have really bad reputation now

[WhiteBoyChill]

Must be nice living in a culture where people actually behave normally

[KostasKouvalis]

Finally, someone who sees that that the only White men who date/marry Asian girls, are ones who can't get any other girl.

[WhiteBoyChill]

@KostasKouvalis That’s precisely it man. I mean why else would these guys even be talking about Asian women if they were already in relationships? The simple answer is no white woman actually wants them.

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis that’s a know things though too men who marry them hate them if they ever see a white girl with a non white guy they become crazy while they’re married to an Asian women truly they just used them as maid

[KostasKouvalis]

I know, they deny it, yet it's so obvious. Maybe for maid over there, I don't know. Here they marry White men for green card, though there are laws against this now. But they are more popular amongst White men then other ethnic girls, because they are more willing to have sex. But most of them are unattractive and I don't like their attitude. The only thing I like about Asian girls, is they have nice feet😋

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis Asian women are very bossy my uncle dated one when he was a teen it didn t last long since she was extremely bossy and nagging

[KostasKouvalis]

My cousin dated two, and one dumped him 'cuz he wouldn't marry her and the other dumped him because he wouldn't pay for her college.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I just can’t stand the guys who obsess over Asian women. They’re honestly just pathetic emasculated simps no white woman ever wanted

[alice55]

Thé last one sound like thé only things that interesed her was thé money

[alice55]

Yes they pretty pathetic but at least when they date Asian they don’t go harassing some poor white girl And my uncle is happily married to a White sicilian woman he doesn't obsess over Asian

[OlderAndWiser]

What is the difference between having an interracial fetish and simply dating an Asian woman?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Guys with interracial fetishes post about Asian women constantly on this site

[WhiteBoyChill]

Like its their behavior and conduct that makes the difference

[Berethor]

White guys are going for Asian girls mainly because Asian girls tend to be more submissive.

[WhiteBoyChill]

What the fck is that suppossed to mean?

[Berethor]

Asian girls tend to be more submissive AKA less feminist, what you don't understand?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Whoever said Asian women can’t also be btchy c*nts?

[WhiteBoyChill]

I don’t care if they’re supposedly less feminist or not. Why the fck are we assuming all American women or even most American women are feminist cunts and all Asian women aren’t?

[Berethor]

Feminism been created in white countries, not all white women are feminists but they more likely to be, also I believe that it Asian women who have more fetish to whiteness.

edition.cnn.com/.../index.html

[WhiteBoyChill]

Bud why the hell should I spend all my time thinking about women overseas if I don’t even have access to them? Why the hell should I let them cloud my thoughts?

[Berethor]

Didn't there quite a lot of Asians in the US?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asian_Americans

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah if you live in certain fcking areas. And why the hell is it that all these guys will spend all this time talking about Asian girls while never doing anything else about it?

[WhiteBoyChill]

If you want to date Asian girls than fcking go date them, but I’m sick of hearing guys talk about them endlessly at nauseum.

[Berethor]

They are allowed to dream. :)

[Summeroflove]

It’s normal or bothers you. People are only after sex. They don’t want a real relationship with someone. They want the next thing to get their jollies off.

[WhiteBoyChill]

You dont find it fcking weird tho

[Summeroflove]

Yeah. I do. I don’t find it weird to simply be attracted to a race. But yeah. When it becomes a fetish. It is weird.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Exactly

[Avicenna]

Well, why should people only be attracted to members of the same race? And it's silly to accuse people of "fetishization".

[WhiteBoyChill]

It just bothers me. All this obsession and fixation over people. I’m calling it what it is. It’s not healthy to just be constantly thinking of Asian girls

[Avicenna]

There is no difference between thinking about women of one race or another. None. Think about this- isn't it worse to have people telling you which women you can be attracted to and which ones you can't be attracted to?

[WhiteBoyChill]

But why the hell should I be constantly thinking about a specific type of woman? You consider that healthy? Or should I just fcking live life and stop putting women on pedestals like a fcking simp does. It’s one thing to say “yeah Asian women are pretty” but its completely different when you just go everyday wishing you had access to them

[Avicenna]

Well, of course, as with anything, too much of something can be a bad thing, certainly if it interferes with your life. But why is that any worse if it's Asian women you're thinking about too much? It's not. At the end of the day, everyone has preferences and they live their life. I don't see what the big deal is.

[WhiteBoyChill]

The “big deal” is that there are so many people who let fetishes consume their lives

[Avicenna]

Why is a "fetish" for white women any better than one for Asian women? Why is being attracted to women of your race not a fetish but being attracted to women of other races a fetish? Makes zero sense.

[WhiteBoyChill]

It isn’t. All fetishes fcking bother me but white guys screaming about Asian girls seems to be the one that comes up 80% of the time

[WhiteBoyChill]

And this isn’t even about attraction its about obsession

[Avicenna]

Well, maybe Asian women are doing some things right. You can always ignore what’s being said

[CALIGVLA]

Wait a minute, aren't you an actual incel?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Right. Because I’m suppossed to believe there are women that actually want you.

[CALIGVLA]

Since you're this curious, would you accept yourself as a member of the alphabet people if I showed you my my last 3 girlfriends? I don't have any problem with women. And neither do you, by the way. You're just confused with your sexuality, which you don't accept for what it is.

[WhiteBoyChill]

You’re really not convincing me here. I’m sorry

[WhiteBoyChill]

Like I’ve literally already seen everything from you I need to know

[CALIGVLA]

I'm just trying to help you. I'm fine with my dating life. I can say I'm satisfied. But you? You're hurt. You're self-loathing. And that's because you don't accept your own inner self. Dude, c'mon... We're not in the Middle Ages anymore. It's 2022! People won't hate you just because you're sexually attracted by men.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Gee well I guess in all your infinite wisdom you know more about me than I know about myself 🙄

[WhiteBoyChill]

Why don’t you just worry about yourself and I’ll worry about myself? Because its obvious enough to me that you’ve still got issues regardless of whether you pretend not to.

[CALIGVLA]

Don't be cute with me, little one. You know very well that you're sexually attracted by men. You just think if you repress your true feelings, your 🌈 inclination will disappear. It won't. Son, you must accept yourself for what you are.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Only true faggots go around telling other people they’re gay while pretending to be straight. I don’t care about how many women you’ve supposedly been with. You’re full of shit and you’re just trying to self project. I’ve never once accussed anyone here of being gay without evidence, but that’s exactly what you’re doing

[CALIGVLA]

Kid, there are things you can change in life. But there are other things you cannot change. Your life is currently a cesspit of racism, hatred, self-loathe, helplessness, envy, anxiety and lack of self-acceptance. But you can def change your life if you get psychological counseling, proper medication, if you stop watching interracial porn, racist content on the internet, if you accept yourself, make friends, etc. But some things you can't change. You can't change your sexual orientation... So what's the point in being a repressed homosexual? What's the point in watching interracial porn just to imagine yourself in the place of the white woman when you can actually date a black man and no one will judge you for that?

[WhiteBoyChill]

What evidence do you have that I’m a homosexual? Are you a doctor? Are you a psychologist? Where are your credentials? You’re full of shit man. Time to find a job that doesn’t involve trolling people

[abc--123]

Can't someone just find people attractive without it being a fetish

[Anonymous]

Are you distinguishing between fetishization and physical attraction/preference?