Why does it feel this way when I’m about to cum?

Ok so whenever my guy is going down on me or even during sex when it feels like I’m about to cum, it feels like I’m going to pee or at least HAVE to pee. I have yet to orgasm because I always stop my guy because I’m scared I’m going to pee. I even will pee before we start and I still get that feeling :( what’s wrong with me?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You might have an over responsive bladder... I've heard an exercise called pelvic crunches area good way to help with this problem. The area is an area connected to your bladder area so it makes sense it would be effected in some way... if you can if it helps to try going before you have sex or to stop and go during sex if your partner doesn't mind and go back to having sex... then you will be sure you will not go pee.

  • Pee good before and then let 'er rip!! You'll likely squirt and that's ejaculate, not urine.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You most likely squirt. If it makes you uncomfortable just masturbate until orgasm and find out. If your guy has any experience at all, he won't mind on bit. In the meantime have some solo fun until you're more comfortable with your body. There's nothing wrong with you. 😊

  • Nothing is wrong with you. That was frustrating for me at first because I would fight that feeling, thinking I would pee. You just have to force yourself to relax and let it happen. Once you do, it really opens things up for you.

    • Have you ever stopped cum?

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  • It’s completely normal for this happen there is nothing to to be scared about it (try to go through with it , it’s well worth it and will feel amazing ) . Itmight even mean you might squirt.

    • It’s the build up of sexual tension and is normal to get a feeling of like your gonna pee some times it can come out during an orgasm (cum) It’s completely normal (always put a towel underneath)

  • Let him do it... it means your going to squirt. It is awesome!!!

  • Relax & squirt all over, many girls dont squirt even if they want to. Lucky you.

  • Sounds like your a a squirter

    • Sure sounds like it.

  • Some girls feel same thing like yours. In my job as a masseuse when I go down On a girl some of them get lots of fluid out of vagina when they orgasm. Don't worry a all. let your fluid come out. if it enters guy's mouth it would not be unhygienic.