Why does it hurt when I try to masturbate?

[Anonymous]

I never actually succeed either and never had an orgasm.

[Wowie101]

I think you need medical help somethings wrong. Either that or embraced the pain as part of the procedure. I knew a girl once who had the same problem until I brought her to orgasm and then she realized it was just part of it. But I would advise medical help

[Asker]

Medical help? What?

[kkirk4442]

You may need to have more lubricant, to avoid irritating your sensitive skin. And you need to focus your attention on your clit, and experiment with how much pressure works, and how much movement works for you.

[Anonymous]

I no longer can masturbate more than 5 minutes if i am alone, because masturbation have become boring for me.

But with my boyfriend, i can mastubate together or have sex together, i can continue for more than 4 hours.

[taeh_ie2]

Maybe cuz your not horny or wet enough. If you just stick a finger in there you won’t get the best orgasm.

[Asker]

I can't do that. It hurts.

[taeh_ie2]

Are you forcing yourself to have an orgasm. Be honest.

[taeh_ie2]

If that’s not the reason, maybe you are being a little too rough. Remember the vagina is a very sensitive part.

[Asker]

I hardly do anything and it still hurts.

[taeh_ie2]

by the way what hurts? And how many times do you masturbate in a day?

[Asker]

Maybe once a month I try something but it never feels good.

[taeh_ie2]

Maybe your masturbating wrong. Are you focusing on the parts that feel the most pleasurable. But tbh there could be so many reasons why it hurts.

[Lliam]

You need to be horny first. Then use some lube, maybe even warm oil, and start by gently rubbing the sides of your clitoral hood with a finger. Ply your labia with your fingers. Run your fingernails gently over your inner thighs. Massage your breasts. Be sensual. Don't force it. You have to warm up slowly. At the same time, use your imagination and think about something that makes you horny.

[ChrisMaster69]

I would consider making an appointment with doctors, they will likely refer you , however it will hopefully rule out anything major, it’s better than simply living with it.

[Asker]

It would be awkward going to the doctors with a problem like that

[ChrisMaster69]

Unfortunately life has awkward decisions, depending on country, health centre can help Chances are it’s nothing, and may be oversensitive, It’s also worth seeing where it hurts, rubbing or penetration. That and if you get turned on or aroused by porn, reading erotica etc.

[Asker]

But what's gonna happen if I don't masturbate? I just don't get it.

[ChrisMaster69]

Do you ever just get randomly turned on? Do you read erotica and feel turned on? Simply lying back and rubbing with out getting turned on and wet could be the issue. You might want to consider a lube if you are not producing enough natural lubrication

[Asker]

I guess so I get sometimes.

[ChrisMaster69]

Try masturbating at those times. Also try a lube just be very very gentle with yourself

[Asker]

I can't cause I am usulally around other people when that happens

[ChrisMaster69]

Lol yeah that would be rather odd Try reading erotica, different types and see if anything gets you

[Asker]

What's that? A page?

[ChrisMaster69]

Literotica It’s a website of erotic stories

[chriscdi]

are you calm when you masturbate?

[MasterOfReality]

That should never been painful unless you are doing it wrong. Try using some lube.

[KrakenAttackin]

Stop using a wire brush.

[Asker]

What?

[OddBeMe]

you're either ill down there or not doing it right. you've found you're own clit right?

[Asker]

I've found it a long time ago.

[OddBeMe]

And still can’t eek out an orgasm?

[Waldoe]

use a better or MORE lube

[msc545]

See a doctor about this please

[EaterPeter]

Don't try too hard. If you have already failed 3 times. It's time to see a doctor. You may have thick hymen.

[princeofromance]

That sounds like a personal issue. I am going to recommend that you seek the advice of a medical professional. They are more suited to help with your problem then anyone on this site.

[PurSeduction]

agree

[NibirX]

Excessive

[Anonymous]

You may find this useful.

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