Why does it only take me 30 seconds to orgasm when masturbating?

For context, I’m a girl, I don’t watch porn, I just think up fantasies in my head and get off to them. I don’t finger myself I just rub my pussy or stroke it with a feather, and it’s like instant-cum. Wtf is happening.
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  • Things are working normally.

    You are able to get your mind going well before you even start touching yourself, so you are able to give yourself a "head start" already, plus since you are the one touching your pussy, you get instant feedback, and can adjust speed and pressure and direction exactly when you need to, right in time with your fantasies, and so of course, you get to an orgasm efficiently.

    What you'll probably find out eventually, though, is that you get BETTER orgasms with a partner. That may not be true of EVERY partner - you have to have someone who understands women's bodies, and someone who knows YOU well enough to have figured out what works best for you - and that takes multiple sex sessions with you specifically - but when you have that, you'll probably find your orgasms, while probably not as quick to happen, are more powerful and more satisfying. That's one of the reasons sex is so attractive for both sexes.

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  • most of us guys like girls like you... if you can reach orgasm in 30 seconds, that means it takes the pressure off of us, and if we do it right for you, you will be able to have multiple orgasms in the next hour or so...

    when I was in my early twenties, I could sometimes reach orgasm with just a couple strokes, which was good sometimes, but not necessary at others... but I've always been able to hold it off while having sex, so its all good for me... im sure that you will find it to be a blessing as time goes on, and not only you, but your man as well...

    it makes me tingle just thinking about how easy you can cum...

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  • I guess it’s because you are very aroused before you start with all those lovely thoughts and then of course you know just how to touch yourself as you have been practising and so there you go 30 seconds it is. Lovely.

  • thoughts alone can take you over the edge so to speak,

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  • I'm sure its pretty common for people to have certain things that they can think about that will make it only last a second.

    I won't post it publicly on here, but my wife can be pretty much the same as you're describing, under the right conditions and fantasizing about something in particular that shouldn't turn her on, but will make her finish almost instantly if she decides to go there.

  • You are very highly sexed! There's nothing wrong with you. In fact, just enjoy yourself! Just think how great it will be when you finally meet someone whom you really love with your whole heart! You will spend 24/7 in bed!

  • That is pretty hot so are you asking to learn how to take longer or less ok so I feel your post right now and thst means I feel you I feel your energy and it's hit and strong I believe you to feel energy s and feel them during these times and thst even hotter because if true you are a very hot and sexy lover

  • Must be nice

  • I mean you know what you like more than a dude so it’s normal

  • Sounds pretty awesome for you... Does it translate to sex with a partner?

    • I don’t have a lot of “sex”

  • It sounds like you have a very high sex drive ( and a good imagination) You need to slow down your fantasies try different calmer moves Maybe insert your fingers slowly Dont rub straight away play with your other Eroginal zones Breats nipples Other sensitive areas The more you explore the better your final climaxs will satisfy you Dont worry if you cum harder after all that is the ultimate finish You have been looking for

    • I don’t like sticking my fingers in

    • Try wearing some disposable gloves Its really being open minded and get to know your body responses

    • I’m good.

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  • That suggests you have a verrry high sexual libido @ThatSwitchGirl
    !

    How about if/when you make sexual love with someone?

    • I don’t have “sex” if that makes sense

    • You mean you just bring yourself to orgasm?

    • I do sexual things, I just don’t have proper sex

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  • have you tried carrying on once you cum because its likely the second orgasm will take a lot longer to reach and be more intense?

    • I could never do that. My clit becomes way to sensitive to keep touching it.

    • @PinkMichae samee

    • maybe a few moments longer would allow that feeling subside but i do understand as it can be similar for me when my glans is so sensitive just after orgasm but thats the time to play with my balls for a bit and resume stroking when its not so sensitive or you could also try edging where you stop right at the moment you feel your orgasm beginning and then resume once that feeling passes. i find for me this is a great method to enjoy extended masturbation sessions and again the orgasm when i finally give in is usually huge.. either method is worth a try at least so have fun and good luck if you do go for it ;)

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  • Some people are more sensitive, but it also depends on how much you needed to cum. If i really need it ill reach similar orgasms. Edging (Stopping right before orgasm over and over) strongly recommended will allow you to prolong and even increase the intensity.

  • Omg tmi😂😂😂u got me dying😂😂😂

  • Isn't that a really great "problem" to have? So many girls seem to have difficulty reaching orgasm at all.

  • some girls are extra sensitive so they can orgasm easier.

  • Because masturbating you are only focusing on yourself , during sex you are focusing on pleasing your partner , if you are a good partner lol

  • I can only orgasm by rubbing

  • Plenty of practice...

  • because you know best what pleasures you.

  • The feather is "opening the (sensory) loop", making the effect more extreme in your case.

    Here's the explanation -
    If you've ever tried to tickle yourself, you know that you cannot. You are working with a "closed loop"- your brain, and therefore your body, "knows" what you are doing so it basically ignores it.
    Now when someone else tickles you, there is an "open loop"- your brain gets no feedback since you aren't doing the "tickling".
    When you use a feather (or whatever), you brain loses much (but not quite all) of the sensory input of you touching yourself: the "touch" is not by "you" directly, but by the feather. In this way, you are being stimulated by a "mostly open loop" , thereby enhancing the effect.

  • Years ago a lesbian instruct me in how to eat pussie because woman knows how to please a woman Then by accident I found out that there's 3 types of orgasms that a woman can have and the 3rd one is where she squirts like a fire hydrant oh my God that's Scared The hell out of me but excited Me Too! That's the real orgasm

  • lol why would you complain about that? xD

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