I love to express myself openly when it comes to sexual discussions. But that doesn’t mean I’m open to everything. I’m quite closeminded. Also I’m dirty yet I’m vanilla. I’m not the type to sleep around but I’ll put it down on the one I sleep with. I mean I could keep going with this back and forth crap. But is it the same for you? Do people assume you can only be naughty or nice and not a little bit of both? Mf I’m the best of both worlds. 😂
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I'm kind of the same way, really.
I'll openly discuss anything sexual, but I'm also completely monogamous. Of course, when I'm with someone, I'll do almost anything at least once, with only a few hard limits.
Outside of sexuality, I'm just a big ol' boy scout, though. The people that know me aren't the least bit surprised, because I'm a pretty open book. They know I'm a "goody goody" with a perverted mind. 🤷♂️
I won’t even do everything once. I’m picky af about what i allow and when i allow it. Folks be shocked i won't have sex until closer to a year of dating. But yet i have no problem with jerkin em off month one 😂 And like oral, thats so many months away. And everyone in person knows i am the way i am on here except for my mom. I’ll keep playin that innocent card with her
That's why I said "kind of," lol There's a few things I won't do, no matter what, and I won't sleep with someone right away, either. Once I do, though, she can be like, "Hey; I wanna try this," and I'll be on board with it. I enjoy a wide range of sexual activities, but more than that, I'm a giver. Unless it's ahard "no" from me, then I'll gladly do things that she enjoys, even if I wouldn't do them on my own, had she not have asked. A relatively tame example would be something like a girl telling me she loves having her hair pulled during sex. That's not something that I would do, unbidden, but if she asks, then I'll absolutely do it. And nobody thinks I'm innocent, lmao.
I’m a giver too but i want to start being selfish and just lie back 😂
Goodie with a naughty side was what originally attracted me to you actually. I love the concept of a good girl who is so naughty in the sheets. I am just a lot more kinky… haha! Which I think is where my good girl concept brakes down. I don’t know any “good girls” who are kinky…
Yea im not kinky 😂
I mean there is nothing wrong with that!! 😇😏 and you have some really fun out of the box sex ideas too that any vanilla guy would go Googoo for! Well in truth any guy. It’s just fun!
Aww thanks :)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I have been objectified by guys in two different ways, one was seeing me as a sex object, but the other was seeing me as a perfect angel, those might seem like opposites but they are the same as far as not seeing me as an actual person but more like a representation of some idea they have. Neither is accurate so neither is going to be a good basis for a relationship. But yes I have sometimes imagined "what would Brad think if he saw this" where I am behaving in the opposite way they imagine.
Nobody is just one thing, like everybody, I can be good or bad, mature or immature, smart or dumb, etcetc.
I’d actually love to be viewed as the perfect angel again 🤣😂 but i get what you mean
"one was seeing me as a sex object" No guy actually ever views a woman as only a sex object.. They view a woman they wanna have sex with, but not as a object.. Of course, since they don't know you they can't know the type of person that you are..
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being naughty while at the same time having self-respect and choosing whom to be naughty with. For instance, a girl or a guy can be selective and be modest, but once they find the right person they click with of the opposite, it’s healthy and wonderful to be able to share in what drives each other crazy. The giving of each other and causing the other as much pleasure as possible. It’s also quite possible to be considered “vanilla“ by not doing extreme and unnatural, degrading, or harmful types of sex but still be extremely horny and have a very healthy, satisfying, natural sexual life with the person of the opposite that you love.
Yes finally someone gets it
Yes, I got very much my own way and path on stuff, and got a friend calling me a Nun becouse they dont get how diffrent my dirty mind is
Even if it seem clean to some
If you’re a nun what are they lol
A sex addict 😅
I like that quote. Amd i get what you are saying. It's actually the same with me.
The struggle is real
I absolutely LOVE your quote! 😍 Yup and it's so fun to see people's faces get surprised every time. I expect all people to have both nice and naughty sides in them, even those super serious people on LinkedIn. 😂
😂😂not linkedin
🤣😂😂
Love the quote. And, yes, you're right people can't handle it. People struggle to accept two things that seem to be contradictory or in tension.
And i guess its not even fully contradictory to me. Its just like a little more than half type of ordeal if that makes sense
Makes total sense! 🙂
I guess cause it doesn't fit into their picture of that person
Yep judging the book before they even read that hoe
Excatly!! Happens way too often tho
I call them great ones... lol
Haha i like
Because it is a contradiction to what has been established about the individual. I will be honest Dizzy, there are times I look at the things you say that come off very contradictory if not hypocritical at times. I don't say that to be mean, but to be transparent with what I have seen.
Either way, you're you. All that matters is how you feel about yourself.
I love me so I’m not worried. Bt whats contradictory? I feel like i’m a “do this but not that” type girl
The combination of both is a great balance. I am super nice, doesn't swear, even when people are jerks to me so i am calm with a nice hint of naughtiness with the wife, and the wife is even better with that combo.
Thats good
It’s quite true
Which part
The whole thing
Well it's simply cause they don't know you.. They see you in a type of way and make a judgment based off of that assumption.. That's the way humans are.. We prejudge for getting the full assessment many times.. Although, I would call you selective, I don't know about goody though.. 😂..
Some of these are people who have known me enough for years but still think otherwise. And will continue to do so cause i surely won't ever date em lmao
Well, I mean at the end of the day it's only natural that they wouldn't know that, especially if you don't disclose that info to many people.. I mean you've known me for a while and probably would be shocked with some of the stuff if I told you.. 😂😂
I tell everything about myself tho. y'all the private ones (which is a good thing but still lmao)
People aren't used to seeing a single of opposites
You’re probably right. Too much to handle haha
Union not single. I'm exhausted Yeap exactly
Lol rest up
I like very much the idea of someone being serious when required, and naughty when an opportunity occurs. I'm convinced that every duty or obligation for instance should be counterbalanced by some fun. Meaning I can be very serious, and very naughty. A pity being naughty leads to so much misunderstanding.
But i’ll continue to be misunderstood because i won't stop
That may depend on who you meet, and it's impossible to please everyone. Be sure that with me a lady able to be as well serious as naughty would be more than welcome. Sure also there is a time for everything, but I do appreciate a openmindedness.
I consider myself both as well , I can’t just have sex with a girl for the hell of it , I have to feel chemistry and connection and that it means something , My intentions aren’t to have sex with her for the short haul , but to really know what she wants is the question mark? it’s a 50/50 chance , on whether she wants the same or not , I do like to talk dirty in a fun flirty way if I am horny, I will talk dirty with the intent to make her smile , some girls will be impulsed by it and not grasp my sense of humor and some girls will grasp it and laugh and love it and be turned on by it as well , so it just depends on the person , We can’t read
Each other’s minds and we Really don’t know what someone else is really into? so if I am with a girl that I have good chemistry and Connection with and I want to have sex with her I will sometimes talk like Chef from South Park lol Mmmmm come here baby , the things I want to do to you for an example , I am pretty much letting her know I want
To fuck her brains out and if she
Can grasp my sense of humor and it turns her on then she is my kind of girl , If she is turned off by it then I feel she isn’t the girl for me that she takes things to seriously , I like girls that have a sense
Of humor that don’t always take things to seriously , that know how to let loose but also know what it
Means to be in a relationship, If she is the type of girl that just jumps from cock to cock then I don’t want anything to do with her , I want a girl that is loyal and
Trusting that loves sex only with one person that has a sense of humor and that enjoys smiling, That knows when to play serious when she has to mainly faking it for work , but outside of work she knows how to let loose a little and have fun
I love when she can talk dirty to me in a playful way as well when she can look me in the eyes and then whisper in my ear come fuck me , Girls don’t realize how much of a turn on that is to most guys , when a girl compliments me and makes me feel wanted and valued and her priority she doesn’t have to worry about me cheating on her or being interested in someone else , when she compliments me and keeps a smile on my face then that’s the kind of girl I will commit to , I don’t want a girl that brings misery into my life or Treats me like a convenience and sadly those type of girls some how manage to get into my life , it’s always great in the beginning but the it slowly fades and then their true colors come out that they are just selfish whores
Yea all of this is great but i agree that if the dude is just throwing dick around from female to female, i dont want any part of him
Exactly then he is the piece of shit
We all have a dirty mind and the quote says it all. I guess society wants selectivity and it is a good thing if a girl knows who the father rather than guessing at who it might have.
Lmao but dudes also sleep with so many girls that they have several baby moms at once 😂 I think i get what you meant though
Many people seem to have both but don't always admit it until you get to know them very well.
Yea thats probably the problem. Some people like to solve a puzzle but i dont. I want it all out in the open ahead of time so i know what i’m getting myself into
I like your style.
Makes perf sense. I'm a hornball. Horny 24/7. But I'm not gonna jump on the forst dick I run into know what im saying. I respect and value myself too much. Tjats what it is really the self respect yoy have for yourself
I agree fully
I am sort of the same way. I treat girls gently and with respect and I am very traditional. In bed I can be a little rough and not so polite.
Rough stuff kinda scares me. Yet i like being pounded fast 😂
I am just rough enough.
I agree with you. I am the same. Everybody has a naughty side and they would be lying if they said no
Its prob because i like to air my dirty laundry 😂
Haha maybe
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