So the fact that you have not had sex is would not a big issue to me. But the fact that you say its because you had a unhappy family growing up suggests that you have insecurity issues and this a huge RED FLAG to most men.
When you talk about a happy marriage you would be fool to think that sex is not a major part of the relationship. So for someone who's never had sex, you honestly have nothing to compare or experiences up until now against. So if I was to meet someone like you, and you were to express your desire to wait on sex until marriage then there would never be a second date. I would never wait until after marriage to find out that we are not sexually compatible. Because again I have experience in marriage and sex, and you have no bases for comparison or depth of knowledge in know how very important a healthy sex life is, since you have never had one.
Honestly, you are basing one of your major decision points in life on something you honestly know nothing about. So its not that your virgin as much as it is you perspective or lack of perspective on sex in general. Which is unfortunate because there are a lot of really great guys out there you will never be able to move forward with in a serious relationship.
"Know nothing about" lol As a same gender person as you , u r the one whose brain is substituted with ur groin area. It is none of your business to judge and no one has to think as the same way with u do whatever you do and do not judge the people who thinks differently ur ideas cannot be the absolute truth. Since her decisions and thoughts are close to those whose are like mine I know what she means , unless think brother , okay? Do not even try to convince somebody or dictate ur dirty-minded ideas by insisting them. Cuz someday in the past u were also thinking of like that , these kind of actions are contagious and sweet poison one infected by another. If she does what u say she will become like u maybe regret it so just be respectful against other people's thoughts.
@HopefulGuy94 Thanks Hopeful for responding to my Superb Opinion telling me what I can't do while are do just what you say I can't. The Irony and hierocracy is not lost on me. See when you come on a public forum asking for advice you have to be prepared to hear the truth or things you may not agree with. So even though by no means do I consider my opinion here absolute, there are pieces of wisdom in it. There is a difference between knowledge and wisdom. Knowledge is knowing or understanding a subject, and wisdom is the accumulation of knowledge through personal experience. So a virgin lacks a degree of wisdom when it comes to sex and truly romantic relationships. Which if based upon faith and ethics is not a problem to me, but if it based upon insecurities or fear then that is a bigger issue to me. TO ME, that's my opinions she asked for it and I gave it. Sorry you failed to understand the purpose of this forum.
Dude , just do not be a trash talker by writing as if u r a philosopher. It does not even matter wtf has been chosen is ur opinion as. The thing is u cannot say whatever someone has to do or not. As you say everyone has his own opinion on sth. But the thing is she is the one who waits till marriage , that is , opposite view against yours. So , since u r not the one like that u cannot force the people think as rhe way u do. Especially saying ridiculuos and annoying things about her or anyone like her. If u wanna do it go f*** urself first , do not even talk about ethics , culture , religion or etc. Why do you people always be kidding with the people if they are waiting for having sexual intercourse till marriage , wtf is wrong with it? If that disturbs u just think about ur family members and u will find out if it is ethical or not. The ones u have had that thing is also one's family members but when it comes to yours it is not acceptable. Do not wanna swear or curse but ur idiotic opinions really offends. Just do not say people what to do if they do not have any experience on this sensitive topics especially for them , ok? U were once one of those in the past remember , and do not attempt to force the people feeling under pressure.
It's believed that women have more options and maybe could have found someone by now if not there might be some issue.
Same like once on some post someone asked would you dare a man in 30s and virgin most denied.
Like they said if they were not able to get a girl before 30 to have sex with then there is something wrong with them
It is not surprising and it is nice to see that people think the way you do.
You set priorities and goals in life and abide by them and that only speaks for you and your strength of character. Don't let anyone tell you that you are odd or weird. Those that fail to understand that others can have different goals in life than to sleep around with as many people as possible just simply lack decency.
Our totally corrupt society frowns and looks down upon those that dare to be different. Good for you that you are able to follow the rules you set for yourself. It is only to your advantage.
Does not surprise me, I am as well, I grew up in utter abuse, chaos and trauma. So we want stable. So see it as their issue not yours. You do not have to justify anything to anyone in this life.
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Because OnlyFans and Tinder exist and women are the sole ones responsible for Hookup Culture (being the gatekeepers of sex and all).
it doesn't
in my country it's a normal thing! to the point some people die as virgins in their 70s
what other people think has nothing to do with your life
just hear things from one ear and shoot them out from the other one
Because it very uncommon for a girl to be a virgin at that age.
Why would I be surprised by it? You have your values and you stick to them. I don't agree with them, but I commend you for it.
Because its a natural activity
And typically everyone has sex in their teens since we are just animals afterall
Some are more calculated and others more constrained
Same here as a 28-yrs-old man , probably it is because so many people does not wait till marriage and this is becoming much more common as the time passes and the people who do so think everyone are like them lol pretty interesting though
No, but it's just not common.
It doesn't surprise me
This would not surprise me. Everyone is different and has different experiences.
no not really. Many girls don't want sex and hold religious grudges against it
It's because in this day and age, most girls lose their virginity at the young age of 13 or lower, so it really is a surprise. I feel the same exact way you do.
Surprise me? No, it impresses me. I, too, am a virgin and I don't want to have sex with any woman before I get married. You represent a rare breed of woman---and the kind I'd like to be with.
Her pussy, her wish. Why should I get surprised?
Well if it's involuntary or not by choice, it's because it is socially accepted by most people and society that women don't have to work as hard as men do to attract the opposite sex or to get laid
Because its normal to see 30 year old virgins.
*not
It's just uncommon.
It doesn't. And it's NOBODY'S business, but you're OWN!
I applaud you for this.. you will make someone a very happy man some day.. too many girls give it away to easily.. I know girls that gave it away at 12! .. they are not happy today.. remember them people you have been with the more valuable you are to most men..
Although unusual I'm not really surprised. I am however full of admiration for you.
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