Why does it turn you on to dominate/be dominated during sex?

[Anonymous]

[SueShe]

It does?

I would have thought that fornicating is an activity where people are equal and that there is no need to dominate the partner. I fail to understand why there is even a need to dominate another human being.

I mean, I don't know where you are from since you are anonymous but in most Western countries that are supposed to be civilized, slavery has been abolished a long time ago. Perhaps you are from a country that still is not that advanced and where domination of other people and slavery is still a common practice.

I personally would certainly not want to be the sex slave of anyone and neither would I want to dominate another human being.

[Chiarac2003]

I jus like that I’m plezzing him. It’s a turn on when he’s super into it.

[MarkyMark77]

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[ChrisMaster69]

It does not as such, it’s the feeling of providing a safe space, the trust that is felt between both and knowing how far you can go. That the consent is in place.

The big part is the feeling of her hitting sub space, getting her release and the build up to it. It carries you along with both hitting the same space and feeling joined.

Afterwards you often feel shit, sorry at what you have done.

[TheBigGuy9]

A psychological thrill. Mine stems from pain. From my neurological disease. I’ve lived with pain for myriad years. I like to dominate though.

[Iron_Man]

It doesn’t

[Hanrej]

Because it's exciting to test out limits. I'm more interested in a relationship dynamics than just sex.