Why does man get offended when woman says they have penis size and girth preference?

Question

I know they don't have control over it, but woman don't have control over their boobs size and shape, but man are not ashamed of saying which boobs they prefer.

God_of_Thunder · Accepted Answer

I honestly don't see how that's any different from any other preference, from either gender.

People can, and do, prefer a wide range of things, from height, weight, ethnicity, education, salary, hair color, eye color, etc. Some of those can be changed, and some can't, but nearly everyone has at least some preferences.

Most of the time, people only complain about those preferences when they don't meet them. Either that, or because they are already insecure about that particular aspect of themselves. Then, those same people will turn around and reject someone else for not meeting their own preferences. The very definition of hypocrisy.

I say that, if you have a preference, that's fine. It's normal, and it's perfectly acceptable. Not everyone will meet those expectations, just as you (general you, not specifying you, the asker) may not meet someone else's, either. If/when that happens, don't be a hypocrite.

20yearsolder · Accepted Answer

I don't Get offended. You like what you like. Just remember don't get offended when somebody's not into you because your tits aren't big enough or they're too big. Everybody has personal preferences. It is what it is. If he's too big or if he's too small, you're just not compatible. Same goes for a woman's pussy, too much lip, not enough lip, not tight enough etc. It works both ways. I agree with you guys shouldn't get offended when their dick isn't big enough for a specific woman

Msputiton · Accepted Answer

They used to controlling the narrative and being lied to, This statement evens things some. Wait it's possible now that i might not fit someone's preference

Thepumpkinhead · Answer

Men, i demand your HONEST opinion!

summiter · Answer

It would not bother me at all. A girl is allowed to speak her mind. As long as she is not making fun of the guy I think it is ok.

PeteBy · Answer

I've never had this problem to be honest. Make of that what you will.

BeMuse · Answer

Go for what ever you want. Just don't be surprised when someone tears you down. Women generally can't take criticism. It seems like you criticized some dudes dick size, and he was like well now that you mentioned it while we're on the subject I don't like this, that, and the other thing about you either and you got your feelings hurt and now you're confused about why someone would be critical of you after you were critical of them.

Sixgunsound · Answer

Fake boobs are a lot safer and easier than penis enhancements. As far as I’m concerned, physical parts should matter a lot less than mental parts.

HighValue · Answer

I don't care, but I am most girls' preferred size for that as well as height preference.  I have preferences too. I think everybody does.

Dargil · Answer

I would never discuss preferences with a girl I knew. She shouldn't either. That's what GAG is for.

Fireguy17 · Answer

I'm thinking they might not measure up. But I agree with you on the boob reference.

RealMarek · Answer

Ego probably. I would rather know if I don’t measure up to a woman’s standards than not know and waste my time on her. One woman told me I didn’t have enough previous sex partners for her. No need to get upset, just move on and find someone else.

exitseven · Answer

A guy feels a lot of pressure to please a woman and wondering if he can physically do it does not help.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

That's how hypocrisy works. You demand more of others than you demand of yourself.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Most guys don't. I've never had a woman say that to me because I'm above average there. But pretty much everyone watches porn with massive sexual parts, and just because I like gigantic boobs doesn't mean medium large ones can't do the same job, likewise if a girl likes dicks as big as her arm, one thats smaller than that is still going to make her cum, so it's moot.