Why does my boyfriend masturbate to photos of women?

I’m not exactly sure what he, or most men enjoy about photos. Why do they prefer photos over porn videos? Or, pictures of real women posting on websites?

It also bothers me, because my boyfriend told me he’d be upset if I was searching for real men posting nudes/getting themselves off.

Seems so hypocritical!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • A loser mentality. But YOU are dating HIM!!!
    You're what we call a 'porn-widow'. He'd rather jerk off than be with you. How sad is that?
    But it's YOUR job in dating to determine if he's worthy or not, if he's a match. So far you're failing the very basics.
    NEXT!!

  • It is a hypocritical thing to do. Photos can be viewed without an internet connection. Some guys just prefer photos.

    • It's not the medium of porn or visual material, it's the mental failing of the young man that jerks off instead of being with his woman. Complete fail.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Same reason women masterbate during the 50 shades of grey movie. Porn is normal, everyone does it, even those in relationships. Hell, some couples watch it together.

    • Not saying the movie was a porno. Book was more of an erotica. But similar concept.

  • Porn probably doesn't turn him on, because it's just paid actors. Everyday people probably turn him on more because that's the world he lives in.

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  • Photos? Yeah the guy must have a great imagination. I need videos to get off.

    • He does look at photos, on websites like gonewild from reddit, and other websites! I am not sure why men also masturbate to photos.

    • You should send him some photos to look at instead. I mean if you're that into it obviously

  • that is indeed hypocritical... also ar you sure he isn't contacting any of them?

    • I mean. I have access to my phone. I haven’t see anything.

    • Access to his phone **

    • ah well he is just looking then which is ok but its wrong of him to say to you that you can't do the same

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  • You decided to be with a guy that thinks you should follow rules he is above for that u are ki da silly

    • I can’t understand.

  • Because he wants to and he can. Males are more visually stimulated than females. Everyone knows this..

  • Photos are sometimes better because you can use your imagination as opposed to being shown things on screen.

    • Imagination for what? Imagining sex with that woman?

    • Also, it’s not fair because he said he’d be upset if I was looking at photos of men.

    • yeah, imagining having sex with her.

  • would it be better if he masturbated to photos of men?

    • I don’t think you read where he’d be upset if i was masturbating to photos of men.

  • Do you have sex whenever you want. If he doesn't whenever he wants, that's why when you don

    • We both have sex whenever we want.

    • Okay, if I could with my girlfriend I wouldn't need to masturbate, unfortunately we don't live together

  • Don’t take it personal, guys are visual and we are easily able to separate personal feelings and exercise very primal and simple urges. You should worry about this even slightly!

  • Its bad, tell him to stop, he can get porn induced erectyle disfunction.

  • Images are way better than paid porn videos

    • I worked with a girl once, and we were both waitresses. After work we had a few drinks, and she told me that her and her female friend went out the night before, and two guys "picked them up." The guys took the girls to their place. She said it was obvious that the guys just wanted sex, but that they went about it the wrong way. I asked her to explain. She said the guys served them each a drink, and then popped in a porn video! LOL She said they drank their drinks and left. Out of curiosity, I asked her what would have worked on them. (My friend has/had a reputation for being pretty promiscuous) She said: "Any guy that wants my pussy, had better capture my mind first, and these guys didn't even try." LOL I realize that the askers question is a two-part question, but the second part doesn't even need to be addressed. Why is he hypocritical? Because he wants his cake and eat it too.

  • Uuhhmm... cause he is freaking pervert?

  • Agreed, that is hypocritical. If he enjoys, so should you.

  • Cause he doesn't find you attractive.

  • For the same reason women masturbate to mental fantasy.
    We visually fantasize about pussy and like the visual aspects of the female naked body.

    It's not hypocritical because you are not visually stimulated you are mentally stimulated. YOU as a female jerk off to the idea of a stranger forcing you to have sex or the idea of "Christian Grey", etc.
    This is the female parallel to male visual fantasy.

  • It is hypocritical. Why isn't he masturbating to you?