Anal can be an amazing experience for both partners. But your fear and negative attitude about it will probably ruin it for both of you before you even begin. It's something that takes patience and preparation, as in getting your ass ready to accept something the size of a penis, which ideally should take a few weeks or months.
I will just say this... my wife now enjoys anal at least as much as vaginal and has her best orgasms during anal, by far.
So open your mind and give it a try. Start with fingers or a small toy while you masturbate. Graduate to a tapered butt plug and use that to slowly get your ass used to larger objects. Never push beyond your comfort zone, and have lost of orgasms along the way. That is the best way to learn to enjoy anal. And I promise you it will be worth it... if you have the right mindset.
Some guys like it because it's "forbidden" which makes it more exciting. I personally don't see the appeal and find it quite repulsive. You should never do something you are uncomfortable with.
He wants to do it because he probably thinks it will be hot. If you’re not comfortable with it, don’t do it. You could try a compromise and do doggy and let him cum on your asshole. Truly, if you relax and use lots of lube and go slow, you might like it. Spit is not good enough. You have to use real lube and keep it slick since you butt does not self lubricate like a vagina does. Ultimately, the ball is in your court. Whether he gets anal or not should be your decision. After all, it’s your butt.
Some guys like it some don’t. I’ve always wanted to try it and after a few years with my guy I finally worked up the nerve to try it. He wasn’t all that into it first time and we couldn’t get it done. Second time a few months ago was a success and was good. Tonight is gonna be the third time. A celebration of sorts haha.
I think its a fantasy of his. Its up to you to allow him to do it or not.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Because he saw it in porn, that's why he wants to do it, people usually try to imitate what they see in porn, because they think it's hot, this include facial cumshots or cumming in ass.
Only a girl who has never had it before asks -- why.
The others know why. And that is why it happens over and over again.
Does he specifically want to cum in your ass or is it more about fucking your ass? The anus is tighter so it would be more pleasurable for a guy.
Yeh both
Part of anal being good is your desire to want to do it. If you don't want to do it, you'll be worried about it hurting, and you won't be able to relax enough to make it pleasurable for either of you. If you ever DO decide you want to do it, experimenting on your own before you bring him in is probably a good idea so you know a bit what to expect.
I think as a guy though, it's almost more about knowing it's an option. I enjoy it but it's nice to know I can do it if I want to or not.
Not all guys like it or are curious about it but it sounds like its his thing
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