Why does my bfs dick go from hard to soft to hard again? PLEASE HELP🙏🏽?

Today we were in bed and watching a movie. And he started to feel me up but I told him we had to wait till we watched the movie a little. So I was teasing him throughout and he was trying to turn me on and he was super hard. Then when the time came he did stuff to me and then he wasn’t hard when it was my turn. He jerked it a little and it got hard then but why doesn’t it stay hard?
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  • lilycandy: A dick is not a battery operated toy. It doesn't get hard on command, nor does it get soft on command. You probably understand that your pussy needs certain factors to get warmed up, and to orgasm. To some extent, guys need certain things too. Just as a pussy may not always be 'willing' to orgasm, a dick is not always willing to get hard. A guy can't just say, get hard, and it gets hard. He can put himself in a situation where it normally gets hard, and usually it does, but it doesn't necessarily always do so. It takes a certain amount of energy and stimuli to get hard. If he has been hard very recently, then it may be difficult to get that same 'energy' and stimuli to work again, right away. It's difficult to explain, because a guy doesn't even understand it all. His body responds, or doesn't respond, his dick gets hard, or it doesn't. He can only do what normally makes it hard. The body decides if it will get hard. if certain known, or not understood factors interfere, it doesn't get hard. Confusing? Yes it is. That again, is because guys can't control it either.

  • Like women, men don't have an on/off switch. Arousal is mostly mental, so if he got distracted by anything, from back pain to remembering something he needs to do the following day, he can lose his erection and it can take a little while to get back in the zone.

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  • It's controlled by blood flow. He can't continuously have all his blood flowing to his dick.

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  • That can happen for a number of reasons, most of which you shouldn't worry about yourself. He might need to stop masturbating, or get a cock ring. There are other tips I'm sure to stay hard.

  • This is totally normal. Most of the time this is a normal thing. Dont start thinking that it's you or that he's not attracted to you. Chances are, it has nothing to do with you.

  • It just works that way. Miracle of a dick!

  • Anxiety

  • Its just natural that the penis becomes flaccid when he focuses on something else and it doesn't get attention. But it will quickly get hard again.

  • Oh so that's because of you I can't share this in public it might hurt you

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  • What a strange question

  • Well he can't fill his dick with blood for an eternity, that's a lot of energy you know

  • He probably needs to take omega 3s to clean his blood system or he's nervous.

  • Lack of stimulation

  • Because its not a fucking light bulb, he is a person not meat.