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Why does my boyfriend always cum so fast?

We have been dating for 5 months and we have sex a lot. At least twice a week. I like it when he finishes quick but he has never gone longer than 10-15 seconds? He did say I’m the best he’s ever had. Does him finishing so quick mean it’s that good? The longest we have went without sex was 4 days and that was recent. It actually took him about 10 seconds to finish which is weird cause usually just 2 days without sex it’s 3 strokes and he’s done.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Oh hun...

    his premature ejaculation is not a compliment?

    Are you satisfied sexually? I mean... how? 10-15 seconds. Does he go for round 2 at all? How long does that last?

    He needs to stop when he feels close is my usual advice but this is just too short... he might have a medical condition.

    I got my bf's stamina from like 5 minutes to 15-20 and often longer (thank gawd). You have to express you need him to last longer, tell him to stop when he feels close, focus on you with his fingers and lips and not thrust...

    It will take a while and there will be times when he cums super fast until he gets to a place of greater stamina.

    • He said he thought he would of build up his stamina by now but he didn’t. He also said he has always finished quick with anybody he’s been with it’s just I’ve been the quickest but he has always got me off so I always finish too regardless.

    • Well, it's good you get yours too, but he can still improve for you. Vaginal penetration is a lot of fun..

    • I hope everything works out

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    Mmm. Either you got some good puh or he’s just a one pump chump...

    • He said he used to last a lot longer with his ex who he has a kid by.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Jese uh you may be excellent but that's still too fast. That's erectile disfunction if it's all the time. I sometimes come that fast but it's rare. He could have some testosterone problems. Usually higher testosterone both increases longevity and increases sex drive.

    • How can it be erectile dysfunction?

    • Erectile disfunction is often characterized by not being able to hold off for more than a minute.

    • No matter what that's some premature ejaculation. Make sure he still takes care of you too.

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  • Oh man. Oh man. Oh man.. Its too much for him. he's too excited when he's doing it is what it is. There are things he can do to try and make himself last longer. Like have him masturbate more often. It could just mean his dick is to sensitive and it needs some abuse.

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  • Make him go again after like 2 minutes. Round 2 should help

  • You’re probably having sex too much for him to keep it in for very long. If you want him to last longer, maybe stop for a while? I’m kind of surprised that he isn’t able to do seconds at this point honestly.

  • Sounds like ED or maybe premature ejaculation. He can't rrally help it unless he tries to slowly but surely. Might want to see someone to make sure it's not an issue that will never change.

    • No cause he said I’m the only girl he’s ever continued to finish this fast with.

    • Shouldn't really matter. It's still affecting him, and maybe he's not telling the truth cause he's embarrassed about it - I would be.

  • He has bad stroke, am I correct. Or is he actually able to make you orgasm as well when you have sex... I mean does he try to make you enjoy it too? Or is he purely there for his pleasure and not yours?

    • I always finish. He makes sure I do.

    • Aight, at least he does that for you. But he just has bad stroke. I'm not sure why it works like that for some guys but I guess its different for all of us.

  • Number one twice a week is not I locked why don't you try it at least twice a day and where his butt out eventually he will not be able to come so fast definitely longer than 10 to 15 seconds should be like 10 to 15 minutes. And to be quite honest you better make that boy slash man jerk off before he does anything that way he can hold his own afterwards you'll probably get longer sex that way good luck

  • It's normal that young guys don't last long in bed... especially in a new relationship

    So he'll probably improve over time and experience

  • He is always over excited before pushing it in as it seems. He needs have a control over his mind to tackle his excitement. Plus, advice him to regularly apply olive oil on his dick, specially before dating or sex. That gives a significant improvement as it helps better blood circulation. All the best!

    • Interesting never heard of the olive oil trick, so what it helps you last longer?

    • It doesn’t bother me he finishes that fast cause he still gets me off either way. He said he used to last longer with his exlike 20-30 mins

    • Olive oil induce better blood circulation which eventually strengthens the muscles over there. The overall result is a better control by avoiding the extra sensitiveness. I personally find it great as it amazingly boost up your performance.

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  • Having sex twice a week is a lot, ok

    • Normally 5 times a week.

    • Now you're talking but its still might be not enough, well not for me

  • This is the poorest dick you ever see, he fooling you to hide is weakness! such a funny!

  • Maybe but I doubt it. It's PE and that has SFA to do with the quality of the sex. I'm sure it's excellent but he's using it as an excuse to avoid embarrassment The root cause is more likely to be high anxiety.
    Try giving him him half an hour then have another go at him. Odds are he'll do much better, but just in case go slow and gentle, especially when you're taking him in. Or try non-penetrative sex.
    PE is commin but a dirty little secret! I had a horrible time with i in school..

  • He has a problem of premature ejaculation.
    One of the solution in the long run is Kegel exercises. Thats improves it a lot.

    In the short run when he cums, ask him to go for round 2 immediately after 15-20 mins. in round 2 he will last much longer.

  • I recommend more sex and doing it twice.

  • Because the pussy is that good

  • Damn Al Bundy can lasted longer than your boyfriend.

  • Uhh lol. Maybe make him wear a ring or something. Like when my girlfriend makes me use a ring i can increase my time up to 5mins

    • It doesn’t bother me that he does. Lol

    • I know what kind of ring you were talking about. I was saying it don’t bother me that he finishes fast so a ring isn’t needed

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