Why does my boyfriend always get hard when we are laying in bed together?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Blood flows to the penis.

And it gets hard every morning anyway because of what's known as morning wood.

Does not mean he consciously thought of sex for it to happen.

It's also happening as a result of relaxing, look how many guys get hard when just simply trying to relax, it's not intentional.

It's almost like yawning. Do you always think of sleeping in order to yawn? Or it happens randomly without the thought of sleeping?

Some guys get hard every time they see a picture of their crush. Or even think of them.

Then think how your female pheromones affect his biology.

And if he ever had sex with you, then he bonded with you and will always feel safe to be sexual around you. It will give him more erections than he wishes to use, because of unconscious memories of sex that his body habitually prepares to repeat.

Leapfrog00 · Accepted Answer

It's pheromones. Laying next to you, he's breathing in your scent, and most likely your body's pheromones are the right chemistry for him. Everyone has them, and everyone smells different.

People are just like animals. It's similar to when a female dog goes into heat and attracts a male dog, except with people, they get attracted to each other's scent. You will notice if you haven't yet, his breathing will increase around you too, and he may even grow restless.

You could try wearing a stronger perfume to throw off your body's scent, but I wouldn't recommend it, it might make him lose interest in you.

But anyway, pheromones. That's why he's getting hard around you.

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

Guys get hard when they are comfortable and near their girl. It's not always a sexual thing

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

Probably for the very same reason that you become extremely wet!

Katie1964 · Answer

I am guessing because he's horny. Hope you gave him some relief.

ushagomez · Answer

Just in case you need to use it?

Sour-rose · Answer

:)... so are you slow or are you gay?

NudeBella · Answer

He likes the way you look and feel.

boggboss · Answer

Because u are his partner and u are in bed its not rocket science

slatyb · Answer

That's normal for a young man.

AMS700CX4u2 · Answer

Our society has conditioned us to equate Bed with sex. Consider the term "slept together" What is wrong with a man and a woman sleeping together? No one conceives children while snoring. It is the other activities that can occur in the bed that is implied.

theaviator37 · Answer

You're his girlfriend. He's attracted to you. I don't know what you're wearing at the time but generally when we are attracted to someone, especially a SO, we get erections