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Why does my boyfriend delete his history on his phone and iPad?

I know why, but I want to know why bother when I already know what it is because I've found p*rn on the history before. I'm NOT okay with him watching that stuff. It makes me want to be single, straight up. We've been together for two years, 100% committed. I trust him, but the thought of him looking at other girls when I'm not around? Not cool. I can hardly go to work and be away from him without thinking about it.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Let him watch it. There's no harm in it. It's not like he's gonna run off with those girls. And if he was dating one of those pornstars, he'd be anxious to see you naked. Guys are very visual. But if him watching P*rnography bothers you so much, Just take pics of yourself, or record you guys together. He'd enjoy that.
    I think just letting him watch p*rn is fine. Or perhaps ask him to watch it only with you. or when you're around. But most likely, at the end of the day, your vagina is the one he fantasizes most about.

    • We have done that before... He said he wouldn't anymore because he knows how much it bothers me, but I looked at his history and he deleted it like 3 days ago... Which is weird because I've been with him every day and overnight for a good 9 days now.

  • Pretty much most men watch porn... you're going to have to head into Amish country if you're looking for someone who absolutely does not, would not ever look at p*rn.

  • Set your boundaries with it. I couldn't date a guy that was a p*rn watcher. I would ask him why he is deleting his history. It would seem he doesn't trust you.

Most Helpful Guys

  • He does it so that you don't whine about it. Let him watch it, what's the harm? All the guys do it, and for the one in the relationship it's NOT because that the girl doesn't satisfy him.

  • I think you answered your own question: He wants to watch p*rn, but you don't let him. He just found a way which you can't prove that he is or isn't.

    • He admits it, it's just that he lied for months about it and I believed him. Then finding shit, made me sick. I can't concentrate anymore, every second I leave his house I feel like he's going to. I don't know what to do, it's ruining my relationship and me. I'm trying, so hard.

    • Well, I think the easiest solution is to just come to terms with it that he's a man, he sometimes just needs to pleasure himself. I mean, there is no direct link between the net time spent watching P*rnography to the percentage chance that he's cheating on you or anything, so, it's not all that terrible. As for religious reasons, that's probably something you might need to compromise on, as it would be nigh impossible for you to convince him to stop completely. I mean, if you're into masturbation, you could even join in, I mean, I don't think there's a guy on this earth who wouldn't find that awesome.

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  • Well that's exactly why he bothers to delete it. He's trying to keep you from getting your panties in a bunch over it.

  • You're going to have to get over this whole p*rn thing. Almost all guys watch it, and it simply isn't a big deal.

  • Watching p*rn is totally normal and breaking up a 2 year relationship over something this small is over dramatic.

    • I wouldn't break up, we just always argue about it. It just turns me off, I do so much for him like you have no idea. It makes me legit sick to my stomach thinking about it. Being so turned on by another girl then finishing like that

    • I guess only you know the exact circumstances. Have you confronted him about this? You should, sometimes it's necessary to clear the air

  • Either or both, if you question it then you have no proof and he can try an excuse. The other reason being he doesn't want you to know what kind of p*rn he is watching.

  • there's nothing wrong with p*rn if he's not sticking his dick in anyone else whats the problem, the thought of you going through his history and nagging about probably makes him want to be single to. Leave the man alone

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