Why does my boyfriend finger my ass while we fuck?

How many of you do that and why do you do it? lol I'm not going to lie and say it doesn't feel good. Most of the time that's the case but honestly I would prefer not having his finger up there. Even with lube it hurts really bad. The only times it really feels good is when I'm about to orgasm and during the orgasm. Is it just pleasurable to him to feel his finger inside me or what? I just wish i fully understood so maybe I can learn to enjoy it more. I've always considered trying anal but I can hardly handle a finger.. much less a dick.
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  • You just need more practice. And he's doing it both because yes it does feel good... we can feel ourselves *through* you. It's amazing. And he's also curious about having your ass, which we all want as well (almost all of us, with few exceptions).

  • Maybe he wants to put his dick in there. Why don't you speak to him about it. There is no rules saying you can't talk about things you like and don't like during sex.

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  • Try a butt plug -- but let him put it in -- and take it out. A LOT smoother than a finger. Shape is made for you rectum.

  • He is probably proving to deeds how willing you are to anal or just trying to get you accustomed to the feeling.

  • Because it feels good. Tell him, to stick to circling the outside until you’re more aroused. Rimjobs before intercourse. A well lubed finger while getting oral. Do it to him at Athens same time while in a 69 position.

  • You need to use lube and slowly stretch it

  • It's hot and you can feel your cock against the walls and apply pressure. Don't lie it feels good sometimes so keep it clean, slightly played with from your finger and lubed

  • Maybe he wants to try anal.. talk about it to him

  • I love doing it. I don't really analyze why