Why does my boyfriend jerk off while going down on me?

I really want to know why my boyfriend jerk off every time he goes down on me. We have great sex at least I think so. We will be having sex and he pulls out to go down on me and I always notice him jerking it. Sometimes more then once.
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To the people who think I'm dumb and are being smart asses not everyone is excperianced and it was a genuine questions because I honestly don't know. I am very insecure because I have only been with one other person and he is the first to go down on me.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • He's trying to keep the pace going for himself, as well as for you. Is that a problem? Have you considered pleasuring yourself while giving him head, just to see what it's like? You may find you like it... ;)

  • He wants to feel good and stay hard. We tend to concentrate on you so sometimes we lose our erection while paying so much of our attention working to get you off the best we can. Its all about you honey !

    • I have a suggestion that i suggest you ingest and remind yourself. when we , as in is men or women think too much about stuff. Wondering about how we look if we are good enough is he not satisfied with me. Em I doing this or that right? All that thinking does no one, meaning you and your boyfriend. The thinking does not help the two of you as a couple. Stop thinking so much. Stop over thinking. A lot of men masterbate when they are giving head to there woman. If it bothers you this much why are you asking us. We can only yell you what we know. But you need to ask your boyfriend. After all is he not the only person that has the answer you seek? Over analizing, over thinking about stuff will not help any situation.

    • But if you give him blow job and he cums or If he is fucking you with his dick in your vagina and he chums with out jerking off then he just jerks off to stay hard when he is eating your pussy. Or lime other dudes have said. He gets very stimulated when he eats your awesome pussy that he has to have his cock stimulated. you need to talk with him and ask him why he does this. I'm certain from what you say. it has nothing to do with you or your body. Have you ever heard the expression jerking off will make a boy/ guy go blind. Well he may he blind. Not blind that he can't see Blind in his cock the one eye monster can't see when inside your pussy But when he use his hand. His one eye monster can see and it waters. Cums. That is because he jerk off way too much he broke it. Ask him to let you jerk him off and tell him if you are not doing it how he likes to please tell you. If you do this and he says squeeze harder then you will have your answer. That's about it...

Most Helpful Girl

  • My husband has always done that and mostly it's so he can stay hard. Probably the same for your partner. Not to mention that he's turned on by what he's doing as well. Have fun and enjoy it!

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  • How is this strange? If you suck his dick and he can’t touch you, what would you do?

  • Because he wants to make you feel good, and while he's doing that he likes to make himself feel good? I don't understand why this is an issue.

  • Either to maintain his erection or because it turns him on to lick you, so he wants to pleasure himself at the same time

  • Do you have any discomfort or problem with it?

  • Enjoy it, join in even and if you're both enjoying yourselves, who cares why eh?

  • To maintain the erection, lmao

  • To make sure he maintains the erection?

    • Exactly!!

    • Yeah this is pretty straightforward haha

  • Because it makes him horny.

  • What do you think

  • So he jerks it and busts a nut while going down? You should 69 him if it bugs you so much

  • So it doesn't go down

  • He is used to his hand pressure from masturbating a lot, your pussy isn, t tight enough to make him cum

  • I don't know seems a bit strange...

  • You make him so horny that he wants to rub his dick while eating you out, it's because he is turned on by you. Maybe you should jerk him off while he sucks your pussy, I'm sure he really wants you to

  • Does he have problems having a orgasm?

  • Because he loves giving oral and it is intensely arousing for some, including me. Maybe you can find a way to do that for him or try 69.

  • Because You’re Not Doing It For Him...