Why does my boyfriend keep apologizing for cumming too soon?

[Anonymous]

He apologizes and says alcohol makes him able to keep going longer. It’s not like he’s cumming very quickly anyway, so why does he keep apologizing to me?

[Anonymous]

Probably because he reads about other men boasting they can last for hours, and those who boast about that are oblivious to the fact that the majority of girls do NOT orgasm from penis-vagina sex and find their sexual partner grinding away for an hour or more is so BORING for her !!!

Also, many of these guys who boast they last for hours actually have a low-ish libido, they find it difficult to orgasm !

So tell him to not believe all these guys who mask their difficulty to reach orgasm while having p-v sex with a girl by claiming they're skillful sexually !

[TadCurious]

He obviously must feel like you have expectations that he should last longer. Maybe he previously had a problem with PE and is still self conscious about it even though you've said he's not cumming too fast as far as you're concerned.

[Hangry22]

Cumming too soon is seen as a disadvantage in bed. Maybe he got self-esteem issues and hopes you won't leave him because of that

[DrippingHoney]

He probably wants to make sure you are getting satisfied

[guitarguy1995]

He wants to please you for as long as he can

[COMMODOREII]

Not sure. You should ask him.

[jasco]

Cause lots of girls have more then likely said that to him or he's just feels like he's not doing you any good by cumming to quickly

[Twalli]

We know it vh usually takes longer for girls to cum and we're usually a bit tired after doing so. We want you too also.

[Vito123123]

Because girls reach orgasm later then men... He finished and feels bad cause he can't pleasure you to the full and feels like he is selfish for not giving you orgasm, when in fact the way girls orgasm and guys orgasm is sooo different... Studies show guys pleasure level goes up by a straight line (gradually) and girls pleasure is shown in levels which means level rises every 3-7 minutes and stays that way for some time...

[In_Trance]

ask him why

[Valnac]

That what society tells us.

[CubaPirate]

Because he really wants you to enjoy the sex as much as he does. In that he wants you to orgasm before he does

[Cryptic-Game]

Maybe he feels like he is in the wrong.

[gandolph3]

maybe he thinks he should last like a porn star

[Ivo9898]

Porn stars don't last for that long. There was a documentary about porn movies and how fake the screen is. Search YouTube.

[pvseakings]

I had sex with a girl two nights in a row and didn't cum, even though she did. Several days later she broke up with me. So be happy that you give him pleasure.