Why does my boyfriend like this during sex? Is he bi?

Why does my boyfriend ask me to sratch his back, pull his hair, slap him, and hold his wrist down during sex? He sometimes " jokingly" says, that he is my bitch/property and that im the boss but i think he does mean it. I find it odd due to the fact that he is very masculine. Could he be bisexual?
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  • I don’t think so. I think he is just wanting to be your sub in bed. You should tie him down and tease the crap out of him and then just before he cums just walk away! and then a few minuets later walk back in an play with your self right on top of him. Like he is your pillow or bed mattress.
    Talk about it with him!!

    • I sure will!

    • Will what? Talk to him or tie him down? Lol!!!

    • Tie him down!! lmao

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  • You've got yourself a sub. Doesn't mean he's bi or has any gay leanings. You might be surprised at how many "masculine" men in public want that taken away from them in the bedroom

    • Is being a sub a bad thing?

    • Not at all. Its just what kink gets him going. Its fun and exciting for him. Play into it to your comfort level. He will go nuts i promise you. I generally attract the same kind of woman, stronger and fiesty in public but submissive in the bedroom. Its a better fit for me because i dont handle being in the submissive role well, so when i meet a dom woman it usually ends in a fight lol.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It sounds more like he’s a sub, as in submissive. Requesting another guy join in so he can suck a cock would imply being bi, as in bisexual.

  • If ever there were a good example of girls jumping to conclusions... this is one!! Ha

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  • Welcome to female domination in the workplace and elsewhere.. guys tend to fantasize domination also sexually.

  • A guy being submissive and wanting to be dominated is totally orthogonal to the possibility of him being bisexual.

  • No this doesn't have to be tied to sexual orientation. Even men can be submissive and may like to be dominated. Haven't you seen how many bdsm porn with hot dominas in latex there is?

  • He might just be submissive, might have nothing to do with his sexuality.

  • He's just submissive.

  • Nah. He just sounds very submissive

  • Ask him if he'd like to try strap-ons. If you're up for it obv.

  • No that's normal, just being submissive

  • That's not bi... That's being a submissive...

  • I just think he wants you to dominate him in bed. It doeas not have anything to do with him bisexual.

  • Yeah. Some masculine guys wants to be dominated. Or they loke that kind of roleplay. Or they're plain masochist in bed.

  • Sounds like he has a submissive fetish, he finds the idea of you dominating him to be a turn on, it's not bi or homosexual, it's very common amongst men and women.

  • He wants to be dominated

    • So he wants me to be in control haha

    • Yeah

  • He is a masochist. He likes pain and humiliation. No joke aboy it

  • Cause he is a bitch tf?

    What kinda boyfriend you got? How can he be very masculine and be doing this bs? He def one of those

  • thats not what bisexual means, it sounds like he prefers to be a sub and you the dom, wouldn;t be surprised if he wished to pursue BDSM at some point

    • I do enjoy doing doing that to him. I guess i am a dom.

    • cool, hope you both have a good time

  • No he's not gay, but he like to be dominated like a little bitch. Sorry, but your boyfriend is a little bitch.

    • 😂😂😂😂😂

  • That has nothing to do with his sexuality

  • That is being submissive don't overthink

  • Odd. Maybe he's into submission. Kind of weird though. I couldn't imagine a relationship like that.

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