Why does my boyfriend push my head down when I'm giving him a bj?

We are 19 and he likes holding my head when giving him a bj. My other boyfriends never did that. When my boyfriend cums he holds me down hard when I swallow it. He says it makes it hotter. I am ok with it but do many guys do this? My friends say they would never let him do that.
Why does my boyfriend push my head down when Im giving him a bj?
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  • I like to hold the girls head since it helps with control and speed and deep.

  • control, its a dom thing

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  • To make him feel that he has control of you and is making sure that you swallow. He is basically dominating you and it feeds his ego. Do you know of another act perpetrated on mainly women that has more to do with dominating someone through forced control? Just wondering if anyone else had the same thoughts I just did.

  • Because he's more playful. He's actually fantasizing things. He's actually fucking your mouth as opposed to you just giving him a blow job. Holding a girls face/head while kissing , the same when getting a blow job is a more intense connection.

  • Guys see this on porn and think it is hot. Only let him do it if you like it. He is getting a great orgasm out of the bj! Does he return the favor every time? Are you also having sex with him or just oral?

  • I think all guys have done it at some point. If it bothers you, you should say something and he should stop.

  • If probably feels good to him, but unless he asked if you're okay with it, and you consented, he is disrespecting and degrading you. If you're not into it, tell him. If he doesn't honor your wishes then he needs to find a new girlfriend.,

  • I do this but only if the girl is up for it. Lots of girls find it hot from a submission point of view but if you’re not ok with it tell him to stop!

  • You could just ask him...

  • The way you do it

  • It is pretty common I think
    I like when my man gently holds my head down and plays with my hair

  • Probably watches too much porn when they seem to do that more often I’ve noticed but I’ve never done it to a woman