Why does my boyfriend repeatedly tell me that I’m so tight after sex?

He cums within 10 minutes but he never tells me that it feels good, he just tells me how tight it feels or that im “soooo tight”. Is this a good thing or what? I can’t tell with him.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Guys will tell girls they are really tight as an excuse when they don't last as long as they feel they should during sex as a way to justify their quick orgasm. Or, maybe you are really tight, but I think it's more likely an excuse for his performance.

    • Well it’s actually both. I am tight but yeah he doesn’t last very long. I just really wanna know if he likes it :( because he never expresses how much he likes it.

    • Yes, he likes it.

  • We like tightness, it's a good thing!

    • If it’s a good thing and he likes it, why does he always cum relatively quick?

    • I would think if he likes it then he would take more time to enjoy it.

    • He's quick because it feels good, unless he knows how to pace when he finishes isn't optional.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • that's because he loved it. when it is tight there is more pressure, more friction, so he loved it. just make him say it, seduce him into saying it or threaten him LOL =)

  • That’s a translation to “it feels good” lol

    • I guess, I just assumed that if he liked it he would take more time to enjoy it rather than finishing rather quickly (usually no longer than 12 minutes)

    • @asker maybe you should mention that you want more foreplay in the bedroom. The reason most sex is long is because of foreplay. 12 minute penetration is pretty long for a guy. He most likely is already holding it in for your sake

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  • "Tight" is usually a compliment. If you're really not sure, ask him if he likes the way you two do it. Frankly, I'm surprised he can last 10 minutes if you are "soooo tight".

    • I really don’t know how long he lasts tbh. I’m just guessing. All I know is that it’s pretty quick and I want him to be able to last longer :/

    • If you want him to last longer, try the you-on-top position. That way, you can control the action, including taking a break once in awhile... just stop the up and down motion. Pay attention to his balls. When he gets close to cumming, his balls will tighten up. That's your sign to slow down and make him last longer.

    • We did that. And he came fast. Twice back to back. 😞

  • He's a beginner. They'll say and do ANYTHING for pussy.
    Google this: kegels

  • Because it feels really good and we love how tightness feels.

    • But he never told me that it *felt good* he just talks about how tight I am. So it’s hard for me to tell if it’s really a good thing for him.

    • Trust me, it does. But just ask him the next time he says it.

  • That’s a compliment. Unless he’s 10-12 inches long, that’s a good thing to have.

    • I think he’s probably about 7 inches. Or close to it. He’s not very long, more so thick.

    • That’s definitely a compliment. Don’t go leaving him for someone bigger because anyone bigger will probably be too big for you.

  • Sex is generally good with tightness

  • Cus u feel better. Weather women realize or not your pussy gets tighter after sex. You couple that with the extra lube and feels amazing

  • Take it as a compliment he definitely enjoyed it

  • You can make him cum really hard if you whisper, "am I tight enough for you baby?" as he's doing you.