Why does my boyfriend slap my butt?

sometimes he does it in public and sometimes in bed. It doesn't totally bother me. I just dont know why
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Most Helpful Guys

  • He likes your ass, probably likes the way it jiggles a little when he slaps it too. He's also being playful, a slap on the ass in bed is a very mild, playful way of him being a bit dominant, spanking your butt because you're a bad girl y'know?

    Also a lot of women are into being spanked as part of sex, maybe a slap on the ass here and there is testing the waters to see if you're into that?

  • Its seen as a naughty/taboo thing to do so its just a cheeky 'thrill-seeking' way of displaying his affection for you. Its also possibly a subconscious display of dominance from our cave-dwelling days.

    Chances are he also really likes your arse.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I slap my boyfriend’s ass all the time (subtly though out in public) and it’s an inside joke we have. I like to tease him saying “when God made you out of dough, they needed it too much, your buns never rose…” and he responds with an opposite version for me. 😂 It’s almost always lighthearted for us rather than overtly sexual but everyone’s different.

  • I don't know but some guys do that - I think its just a habit they have

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  • He does that because you ass turns him on and gets him aroused and horny. He loves your ass. That is the honest reason why he does it.

  • It's just something they do, my husband and I spank each other all the time.

  • Because he likes your ass?
    I slap my lady's ass at least 53 times per day.

  • My partner is way way younger than me by 24 years but you would not know this when we are out together. He 'jiggles my butt now and is annoying but interesting at the same time as most days he just slaps it and my breasts are constantly man handled as well as my thighs and me and I'm 54 and yes ill admit I love it. I asked him to stop it yesterday and his reply was that he would kiss it better case closed, no point in saying anything he is just going to keep doing what he love why should I stop him. Im a sexual abuse survivor of a few nasty men, my ex of 30 years, other men after him and one before him when i was only 17 yes i was raped but it did not put me off men and a really good kind one found me in the end. He slaps your butt as that's what men do, I slap his but he is harder to get and catch as he is way quicker than me a seh is younger.

  • Its the best thing to do

  • I hate when my boyfriend does this as it makes him so horny and he keeps wanting to have sex

  • Ask him lol