Why does my boyfriend want me to cum first before we have actual sex?

My boyfriend says he’s “pretty adamant about making me cum first before we start gettin down”. He wants to give me oral and make me cum before intercourse. Does he just find the idea hot, or is there actually a reason behind this? Why does he want this so badly? (I’m sorry is this is a naive question, but I truly want to know what it means)
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  • He probably wants to make sure you have a good time. He’s probably also more confident in his ability to get you off with oral, and may enjoy the sex more If he’s not stressed about getting you off/lasting long enough.