Why does my daddy like domming me with another guy?

[ddlggirl]

he told me his friend is going to help him dom me again tomorrow, how does he not get jealous?

[ChrisMaster69]

Okay, you should both be following Trust, Respect, Honesty and Communication.

These are important tenets under which BDSM operates.

from what you have said, he has broken the one governing Communication.

Between a Dominant and submissive there should at all times be clear and open communication of everything expected and everything that will happen.

By breaking one, it’s brings is to doubt the others.

then the next bit, unless YOU expressly agreed to it, then you are not to be controlled etc by another person, that is hugely dangerous - Informed Consent.

You have zero trust etc with this person, this means you do not know exactly what they will do, they do not know your limits, they pretty much know nothing about you.

You need to stand up and be very clear and loud about the fact it’s not happening.
You control the relationship, not your Dom, you do, you say what can or cannot happen, when etc. You set out the rules and you both agree them,

[Nik1hil]

He isn't possessive

[Tunasub]

He has no feelings for you.

[ddlggirl]

you are 49 years old

[Tunasub]

I'm glad you can read.

[ddlggirl]

how does that equal no feelings

[Tunasub]

He's letting another guy do the things to you that I'm guessing by your question that you really only want him to do... and if I had feelings for someone I know I wouldn't want to see or know that someone else is doing what I was doing to the one I cared about. But if you don't mind it then have at it. You asked a question and I answered. Don't get pissed because you don't like the answer though.

[ddlggirl]

speak for yourself he gets jealous if it isn't his close friend

[Tunasub]

What does my age have to do with my opinion on your question anyway?

[ddlggirl]

bc i don't know why an almost 50 year old man is commenting on my relationship

[Tunasub]

So wait. who is the close friend?

[Tunasub]

Because this is an open forum and you out your relationship out there to be answered.

[Tunasub]

Ask the powers that be to out a 50+ filter in place so you can not have us old folks comment.

[ddlggirl]

basically he has a few friends and he doesn't care if they flirt with me but they can only touch me if they're "helping him" or whatever

[ddlggirl]

dunno why though

[Tunasub]

Ok well I hope you get the answers you want. I'll skip right over your question...✌🏾

[ddlggirl]

okay bestie

[Anonymous]

He is a cuck.