Why does my friends with benefits treat me so badly?

He says slut shaming things & talks about his other partners.
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  • Because he has zero respect for you, and you accepting his bullshit only adds fuel to the fire.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I think it's a good time to get yourself someone who is gonna respect you and treat you as an equal... it sounds like you are being treated like a piece of meat, or a toy... no one deserves that... (unless are into it of course)
    but it sounds like he is just using you when his other partner's are too busy

  • Because you tolerate it, which means he doesn't respect you. The real question is: why do you tolerate it?

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  • He’s a shitty friends with benefits dump him

    • Some people are into friends with benefits bc they are decent people but for whatever reason don’t want a relationship Some people want friends with benefits bc they are assholes And can’t maintain a real relationship

    • Unfortunately you landed the latter. I’m sorry. 😐

    • You’re right, thanks

  • Sounds like a hypocrite and a shitty person. If you're not attached to him, dump him.

  • Cause you let him

  • Because you let him. Get out now.

  • Because he isn’t a friend

  • Probably because you are an idiot for letting them

  • Because he can. But you're sticking around so he doing something else right apparently

    • I’m not going to sleep with him anymore I just don’t understand why he treated me that way

    • Well all we can do is assume, we don't know the guy. But, for the sake of trying to be helpful. I'll assume it's because he has other bitches and didn't care if you stopped sleeping with him.

  • why do you keep fucking him if he does that?

  • Bin him , sounds like he has a personality disorder , a woman your age will have an unlimited supply of replacements , if you so wish.

  • He sounds like a woman hater, so don't waste time wondering why and just dump that chump.

  • He’s not actually a friend at all

  • he thinks of you as a plaything object, not a person with feelings

  • Why the F do you fuck an asshole for? Ugh! Why do you people always go for the "bad boys"? You get what you take. Finder a better friend with benefits. This guy isn't even a friend...

    • They aren't attracted to nice guys. If she was, she would already be with one.

    • @Truthatanycost It's a endless loop lol. Blows my mind why they want to be stuck in it.

    • I remember this newspaper article about a woman that divorced her husband for being too perfect. She was tired of the no arguing and him doing everything.

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  • because you allow him to

  • Time to get a new friends with benefits.

  • If he says that about other people how exactly is that treating YOU badly?

    • What’s your point? That’s his character?

  • he doesn't sound like a friend, which should be first before benefits

  • Because he is treating you like a white knowing you need his cock.
    Find someone who appreciates your tight little cunt.

  • Find a new guy. Unfortunately respect and friendship often aren't there in general like it should be in "Friends" with benefits, but I'm sure you can find a guy that's better than him. And if he cares about you that little to do this, what else doesn't he care about? (ie like your sexual health)

  • because you are dumb enough to let him.

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