Why does my friends with benefits want me to tell him I love him and that I am his during sex?

[Anonymous]

I know he really doesn't love me or should I say I know he's not in love with me. I think we have a special relationship as lovers but nothing more. But when we have sex he tells me he loves me and insists I say it back. He says I love you and I try to ignore it but then he asks you love me and I will nod or say yes but then he will say tell me it or say it. Also he will ask me over and over again if I'm his and I will try to moan louder or keep going to not answer but he will pull my hair harder and keep asking until I tell him I'm his. What is up with this crazy behavior?

[BarbaraP]

He asks you to say "I love you" and "I'm yours" and if you don't he pulls your hair harder until you do it... seems pretty clear to me. It's a way to make you submissive. Looks like he's into that sort of things.

[Anonymous]

I guess saying you love him is kind of saying you're loving it in his mind? And the saying your his may be a way of showing your submissive to him or something

[FantasticPlanet]

That's his link:
Connection.
The old adage "fake it till you make it" comes to mind.

[FantasticPlanet]

*kink not link

[Anonymous]

Just a kink I suppose. Bit strange, but then kinks usually are :D

[sobg71124]

Because a person's greatest need above all else in life, is to be loved.

[ThatBritishLad]

Meh, fetishes.
Sorry, cake toppings. [sic]

[SkaterDude]

he probably gets off that shit , you know people can be weird

[funexplorer]

Sounds like it turns him on and honestly he has feelings for you.

[Brass]

If you moan louder and louder he is going to think he is doing something right by pulling your hair and asking you the same question.

[Anonymous]

He's got problems.