Why does my fuckbuddy’s cousin come over to visit me more than my fuckbuddy himself?

So I’ve known my fuckbuddy for the last 2 years, & I met his cousin the 3rd or 4th time I met up with the fuckbuddy 2 years ago. I used to live interstate for university & he came to visit the state I was living in at the time with his cousin & stayed for about 2 nights because of work reasons. So I saw both of them then & have know them both ever since.

About 6 months ago I moved back here (to my hometown) which is where they both live as well, & my fuckbuddy bumped into me at the mall during my first week back here, & we talked for a bit & he ended up taking me home & fucking me. Ever since I moved back here, we’ve been meeting up to fuck kinda regularly. At the beginning he would contact me once every week, then it turned into once every 2 weeks & sometimes once every 3 weeks but not longer than that. However, recently he’s been going about 4-5 weeks without contacting me, & now it’s been 6 weeks which is the longest time ever we’ve gone without seeing/contacting each other since I’ve moved back.

However, what I find weird is that his cousin has been visiting me more often than him. He lives a little bit far away from me so he messages me whenever he’s near where I live & asks if he can come over to chill. I let him because at least he talks to me & gets to know me which I appreciate because my fbuddy doesn’t do that. He just fucks me & leaves right away which I hate.

The interesting thing though is that the cousin doesn’t have sex with me. He just comes over to chat & hang out & sometimes he asks for a boob job or a blowjob at the most, but nothing more. He tells me that he feels weird to fuck me because he knows I’m fucking his cousin. He tells me that his cousin (my fbuddy) has no idea that I’m even talking to him or seeing him. I’m not sure if he genuinely enjoys hanging out with me or whether he’s hanging out with me to pass details onto his cousin & tell him I’ve been hanging out with him or something weird like that. What do you guys think?
0 4

Superb Opinion

  • Maybe it’s time you changed fuckbuddies and fuck the cousin. I have lots of fuckbuddies (friends with benefits), some I have known for a few months, some for years. But we all fuck on a regular basis. Your feelings for your fuckbuddy are most likely higher than they shud be for a friends with benefits.

    • Yeah the problem is the fuckbuddy used to tell me he wanted a relationship with me & that he had feelings for me so it made things confusing & I fell more in love with him even though he was lying.

    • A shame his feelings are breaking up your fucking. I sometimes felt I was falling for a particular girl so had to cool it off between us. I enjoy fucking too much to settle down with one person. I currently have 6 fuckbuddies (friends with benefits) so keep busy fucking a lot. They love my big cock and always willing to go for a Cowgirl ride.

Most Helpful Girl

  • He's obviously in to you. I don't buy the excuse he makes about it being weird, why would he ask for a blowjob but stop at sex? I think he want to avoid rushing things and see where your line goes.

    What do you think about him? Is he relationship material? Is he someone you could have sex with? Perhaps you could see if he'd like to go down on you and see what that might lead?

    • Nah I also don’t agree that he’s into me. If he was into me he would probably talk to me more often & he would add me on social media but I don’t have him on any social media. We just have each other’s numbers. The whole thing is confusing tbh. It is weird that he stops at a blowjob & doesn’t ask for more. & it’s weird for him to say it’s weird to have sex with me but then be okay with asking for a blowjob. To me he’s just a friend. I don’t have any feelings for him or feel that sexually attracted to him. I mean he is attractive, but without the romantic feelings I don’t feel comfortable having sex with him. I still have feelings for his cousin (my fuckbuddy)

Most Helpful Guy

  • At least he is lucky to get blowjobs from you. What else he wants? Maybe sex but In upcoming days..

    • But I’ve already known him for 2 years & all he’s ever asked for is a blow Job or a boob job. Who waits 2 years for sex

    • Well I myself prefer blowjobs over sex, as it's quickie, not risky for pregnancy. If I were with you, I'd ask for blowjobs mostly, maybe sex but in few occasions only

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

0 4
  • That's because you are a slut and give out sex. So the cousin is there more often because he got less elsewhere.

    • Read what I wrote before you answer. He’s not having sex with me

    • You giving him boob jobs and blow jobs is having sex with him.

    • Um no that’s not sex.

    • Show All
  • He wants to fuck you too

    • No I think you didn’t read all of it. he doesn’t fuck me. He says he feels weird to fuck me cause I’m fucking his cousin

    • Still he wants to fuck you

    • Well then why would he still be waiting. It’s been 2 years since I’ve known him & he hasn’t tried to fuck me

    • Show All
  • He want to take away for himself.

  • Cousin has a crush on you