Guys, Why does my guy always want the top position when having sex , and always wants my legs up. He never hardly let's me on top?

[Jojobear]

[KeiranByrne]

It might be that the idea of not being on top is a threat to his masculinity. It ain't.
It might be that he thinks of himself as the top in your relationship and thinks that means he has to literally be on top.
It don't.
It might be that he's an ignorant lout who doesn't give a flying about your preferences.
Possible.
It might be that he's religious and thinks anything other than missionary is sinful.
Improbable.
It might be that he had a lousy sex-ed curriculum.
Highly probable.
Maybe he skipped sex-ed altogether since, as a guy he already knew it all, and guy on top is how it's done.
Maybe.

[AustinMan]

Who knows? We can all guess and speculate but we'd likely be wrong. Ask him:

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a10152-how-to-talk-to-your-so-about-sex

[Mofunfour20]

He doesn't want you to know he knows a shit ton of other moves. Paranoid about his past porn star days. Try asking him, it's a legitimate question

[WalterRadio]

Why don't you ask him.

[BBLDjj]

Either deep penetration or dominance

[MrOracle]

This is the most likely answer.

[Rudon30]

I assume he want to give you deep penetration. That way. The question is do u orgasm that way?

[Jojobear]

No I do not , in fact we just had sex and it hurt when he kept wanting to go deep. Does he enjoy our sex?

[Rudon30]

Okay well next time trying telling him u want to lead and go for being on top. It Hurst because instead of pleasuring you he is focusing on making himself have the orgasm. Sex is something you be gentle and take your time to really get the best out of it

[Jojobear]

I don't think he means to hurt me when having sex. But I will for sure tell him next time I when we are alone, but do you think he does enjoy our sex though.

[Jojobear]

How do I know the difference that he is having sex cause he loves me , and not just cause he wants to please himself.

[Jojobear]

He tells me that he loves me and that he is not. Just having sex , to have sex.

[Rudon30]

Hmmm. concerning your first question about enjoying your sexual relationship. Sure. Who doesn't enjoy sex. For you to know the difference you got to communicate with him and he with you. Spend time together and talk things out Sex is not everything in a relationship. It's the commitment to Share and help each other become than themselves that makes a strong lasting relationship which interns develops a healthy sex life.

[Jojobear]

I know thank you. We have a pretty healthy sex life I would say. We have it about 1 a week.

[Rudon30]

Great that's good to know. Sex ought to, be awesome and not selfish when ur doing it

[CabernetSauvignon]

kinda like me

its because women are not very fit to go fast and rough and last doing it

what he prefers is deep penetration and its so he can stimulate his genitalia better

be good ontop and hell start liking it IF thats the issue

[Jojobear]

Well He says enjoys our sex, but what is a way he would like me to be better on top.

[CabernetSauvignon]

fuck his brains out. go fast and rough. for me, i can't cum going at the womens pace.

[Mbored92]

he likes to take control

[Jojobear]

Like he never lets me me be in top of gives me a chance to be.

[Mbored92]

everyone got their own way; i guess thats his

[masterkamasutra]

more easy and for control.

[1bigjerk]

you prob dont know how to ride him like a cow girl

[Anonymous]

He probably likes to be or feel dominant and in control. I like a mix up of positions personally. I love cowgirl very much. She can ride me any day!

[Anonymous]

Make him do your favorite. I like doggie myself, and most partners do too!