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Why does my hookup buddy feel the need to sweet talk me or say nice things when he knows im always there and always available?

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  • Maybe he still likes to be flirty and pay you genuine compliments. Some guys enjoy the chase. Maybe he likes the responses you give him. Maybe a part of him does that so he doesn't think of you as just a fuck hole, but a human who likes compliments, fucking, and has her own desires in life.

    If you prefer he didn't, you should say so. If you like it, he likely knows and does so if you like it. Same dynamics are in play when he cares about your orgasm.

    Try asking him outright. "You know you don't have to butter me up to fuck me. Why do you speak kindly to me?"

  • Maybe because he is starting to catch deeper feelings for you and want you to see him as a potential serious partner in the future.

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  • Sounds like the two of you have different views of your relationship.

  • Some guys like to play the romantic with there hook Up

  • Answer possible just romantic role playing or he's really catching feelings for you and you need to draw the line letting him know it's just a hookup

    • Ture! Also he tells me things like im important to him, and how “we talk about sex a lot but its more then that its deeper”... dont get me wrong, its fucking great knowing someone cares about you, but i dont want things to get messy...

    • He checks in on me daily. Somedays we dont talk for days which is good cuz too much of one thing is annoying. I don't know its weird. He wiill ask me about my sexual past expeirences and then will say “i know ill be jealous but its still hot to know”.

    • She seems to be getting attached to draw the line as soon as possible before he tries to make his next move

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  • Maybe he thinks that is what is expected of a f buddy or ye want different things.

  • He might want more!

  • He fell for u

  • Mayne he considers you more than a hook up girl to him

    • Nooo wayz

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