Guys, Why does my husband dont fuck me if he has a hard cock while im playing with it and he's asleep?

I woke up to my husband spooning me and he had a hard on pushing up against my ass, i felt horny so I turned him over to face up continue to rub and play with him but he didn't really react... he just got up go toilet and came back go sleep 😒

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  • Maybe he was afraid of getting too excited. I remember one time I was sleeping with this girl and one morning I woke up and had to pee, and she was really wet, so we ended up having sex. When I have sex with a full bladder, I cum too quick. As soon as I put my dick into her and started thrusting, I could feel I was going to cum, so I stopped. But then I started going again, and the same thing, I felt I was going to cum.

    I tried a third time, starting to thrust again and I felt I was going to cum, so I just kept going and exploded inside of her. I felt really embarrassed. I'm not sure if that's why your guy got up to pee, but I'm sure a lot of other guys don't last long when they have to pee. Hope this helped!

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  • Hey you tried and that’s actually pretty cool, but his cock was rock hard at that hour likely because he actually had some pressure up against his prostate. When men experience pressure there, it can, and often is, a trigger to their genitals that, registering in our unconscious minds as something that actually gets us physically excited. For many of us, that pressure leads to us waking up in the middle of the night or early morning with throbbing hard cocks. But while possibly impressive and hopefully sexy, in all likelihood, your husband had a full bladder and needed to use #2. Doing so relieved that pressure and unless he was looking to fuck, his cock probably got soft again.

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  • My erection is a sacred part of my anatomy, and it is strictly forbidden for slaves to touch it without my explicit permission. This is a fundamental aspect of the master-slave dynamic, as it reinforces the power dynamic between us and underscores the importance of obedience and respect. Slaves should understand that their role is to serve and please me, and that includes abstaining from any physical contact with my erection unless I grant them permission.

  • Sounds like he needs to wake up a little bit more and realize what's going on. Perhaps he was dreaming about you and didn't realize real life was happening!

  • Well maybe his sleeping self holds all the horny feelings while he has tge rest of the feelings lol

  • It's called morning wood and it is normal for us. I usually wake with an erection and become conscious of it when I roll onto my stomach. It is not the same as a sexually excited erection. It is more like "oh I'm hard, I've woken too early, back to sleep now" for me. Mileage might vary between guys.

    It is quite possible for a man to have sex with his girl whilst completely asleep. That has happened to me (and my girl too) a few times. The only thing I remember is ejaculating.

    An early girlfriend and I would do sexual things to each other whilst the other was asleep. She would suck me off and she could ejaculate me whilst I was asleep but it wasn't as good as a fully woken ejaculation.

    If you want to play with this - and why not it's fun - you could try gently/slowly rousing out of sleep when you have got him hard. With that early girlfriend I would just start thrusting harder to rouse her into conscious orgasm.

  • If he's asleep he probably doesn't know you are playing with it. If he's awake he is crazy not to want to have fun.

  • whoops...
    Our hard-on during sleep is the bodies natural behaviour.
    Ofcourse if you play with it he could become horny.

    But that cock has a mind and a life of his own. And many times during the night that cock will decide to go all hard... to a point that sometimes its even uncomfortable to sleep on our bellies.

    That all being said, try sneaking to the cock and sucking on it and wake him slowly to a blowjob. You have a bigger chance of getting him horny like that.

  • Because he's sleepy lol

  • Maybe he already cum or maybe his boner. went away when you was turning over.

  • Damn, how could he resist? He must have been super tired.

  • WTF is wrong with him

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