Why does my husband like the idea of giving me a baby during intimate time?

The thought scares me so bad when I think that I might be pregnant! Had a scare earlier this month and I just hate the idea of a child now!

He knows we are not ready so why like the idea of it?

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  • You both need to seek help from Counseling so you two don't fall apart and there is family counseling too :) Best wishes !!! I feel bad that your Husband is making you upset, you need to bring this all to him.

    • Thanks for MHO :)

    • Welcome

    • @roseysarah Best wishes :)

  • Because you're his wife? He wouldn't have married you if he didn't think passing his genetics on with you might be a good idea.

    • But why want that now! Being pregnant means the end to us time!

    • Being pregnant absolutely does NOT mean the end of you! lol The urge to reproduce is a strong one. How old is he?

    • My age

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  • He obviously has no concerns about your feelings. I would be more worried about that right now.

    • No he does love me so much and gives me special attention and massages. Just really how can that be exciting it means the end of just us alone together!

    • More just asking not he is forcing me

    • That is good, then. 😃

  • It's just a fantasy in the moment. But make sure the bc is up and running.

    • It is and so ready but maybe not inside me today.

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  • Probably because it turns him on so much to think about getting you pregnant.

    • But what about a screaming baby keeping us up does he like? I'll get ugly from it!

    • I don't think it's necessarily the thought of a baby that turns him on, but the idea of impregnating you and knowing that he got you pregnant.

    • But he should not want that till latter and we are ready! Even when the idea stresses me out!

  • fantasy maybe

    • Maybe some day but that will mean the end of us alone together! No more sleep!

    • in a way yea, but raising a child together, making decisions together and stuff can make the bond stronger tho, just requires lots if sacrifice tho

    • It does and we will some day but not now! Maybe 3 years but I want him not a baby

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  • Do 69 or Make him wear a condom or you wear a female condom or other birth control devices Or just masturbate - no danger of pregnancy there. 👍🙂

  • You shouldn't be scared to have a baby

    • Why?

    • Because it's going to make your life great:)

    • No it is the end of us and alone time all things are for the baby! I still love sleeping

  • most guy think that during sex

    • What do guys usually say to you?

    • they say , i gonna make you pregnant now. im gonna give you 4th baby. im putting babies in you.

    • 4th baby? I'd die just knowing I was having one! How do you find time for yourself and your lover? Do you ever get sleep? What if he thinks I'm gross pregnant?