Why does my man sometimes not make a sound when he cums?

Question

Sometimes he's so quiet I'm like😶

NamerOfStars · Accepted Answer

Practice and pragmatism- when you need to masturbate frequently (like when you're a pubescent boy), you generally also need to do so quietly.

If you'd like him to be more vocal, let him know- but it may be rough going at first. Maybe something like "Let me know how I'm doing, okay?" when you're the one steering things. Of course, since words can be tricky when you're doing it right, and can take you out of the moment if they're too in-depth, an appreciative moan should do just fine. If he still balks, remind him this'll give you an excuse to practice your blowjob techniques (if he does anything other agree immediately or say "You don't need an excuse for that", there's probably something wrong with him, but that's another issue).

Reece12345 · Accepted Answer

I hardly ever make noise when I'm having sex / cumming. Just speaking for myself, I really get into every second of our sex together, and I become totally focused on my girl and trying to reach the highest orgasm possible. I just don't have time to make noise... I'm just too focused /

PositiveFlight · Answer

Other than faster respirations, I’m like that too. Sometimes the pleasure is so intense while the male body is firing off seed, that you just want to focus on all the good feelings and twitching sensations.

tiamatx · Answer

Guys are single-threaded, he can't cum and make sound simultaneously ;) And more seriously: either the pleasure is so high that it takes his mind or you need to tell him that you find it sexy to be more vocal, it might be some kind of a blockade.

spartan55 · Answer

He ever been to prison?

SnowedIn · Answer

I rarely make noise when I cum. It doesn't have anything to do with how good the sex was or how good the orgasm is. It's just individual.

slatyb · Answer

I mostly don't either. Seems completely normal to me.

Dargil · Answer

I do some heavy breathing and a little grunting at the moment orgasm.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

A lot of guys are self conscious about moaning and stuff like that

TaureanBull81 · Answer

Maybe is the passive type in bed 🛏 however it's important to moan and groan because it tells your partner how much you're enjoying the moment.

JPresidente · Answer

Could be concentration or enjoyment. Some guys are not vocal. Not me but some guys just keep it inside.

Stevefiveo · Answer

He is probably used to masterbating alone and making sure no one hears. Tell him that when he is with you that it turns you on to hear him moan.

BJP21 · Answer

Im not quiet when I release. I moan or breath heavily.

shanshu · Answer

Self taught basically, when you are growing up masturbating, you try and be quiet as your family are in the house aswell so after awhile it becomes second nature