Why does my muslim husband watch shemale porn but is with a muslim female is he just using me?

i am a 20 y/o female my husband is a 23 y/o male. i’ve caught him multiple times with shemale porn no other porn either ONLY shemale porn on his phone but denies anything around the subject. we’ve been together for about 4 years. he’s a born muslim as am i, but we haven’t had sex for about 2 years i feel like a complete ghost. but he swears he loves me up and down he’s all bark no bite, is he just using me for a cover from his secrets? does this mean he gay?

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  • You are in relationship for 4 years but you did not have sex for 2 years, as you both are Muslims, and not married, you people cannot live without marriage, and if your boyfriend is watching porn, he is not doing good, it is a sin, if he is impotent, then leave him

    • see but we went through what you call a rough patch for about 2 years, and i feel like i tried to push it away and now here we are doing better than ever and we’re still not having sex. i know it goes against everything we believe in but i just can’t get myself to leave him i’ve been with him for most of my teenage years i love him but i will never be able to look past this... I don't know i guess i just want someone to direct me on what to do next, because i feel as if i’m awaiting for something bad to happen everyday we’re always fighting, we never agree, but still somehow i still don’t feel i have the courage to leave.

    • You are in love with him and your don't want to leave, then compromise with him, don't fight

    • but i don’t think i can live with him being gay or into shemales period. not that i’m anti gay or anything i’m just not into that stuff. I don't know i feel like i’m just holding onto something that’s not even there.

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  • That is a major problem and I recommend Marriage Counseling. If he is getting turned on by Shemale porn that is sign that needs to be addressed by a professional like a counselor.

    • even if i tried to do counseling he’d never do it it’s a pride thing I don't know...

    • Stay communicating with him and have faith because as long as he don't engage in that or wanting to pursue in that, he is fine.

    • see that’s the things though i don’t know if he has acted upon it before honestly... or if he wants to i’m completely ghosted. i’m a sexy American woman like i want to be loved and apprciated and he does quite the opposite... but i know it’s unhealthy and i need to move on it’s just hard. we’ve been together through thick n thin

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  • Sounds like gay, shemales are not real females, and didn't had sex with you for 2 years.

  • That's probably why. You're not concentrating on getting his attention.

  • Well not necessarily that he is gay but he might be bi… and yeah I would not be happy in that situation either!!

  • Is this him? Cuz your old man is gay.

  • LOLOLOLOLOLOL FAGGOT FAGGOT FAGGOT FAGGOT!

  • Buy a dildo, fuck him in the ass with it, shove it in his mouth and leave

  • Is he your cousin and its an arranged marriage? Maybe he doesn’t want cyclops babies

    • i’m American i’m white born and raised in america

    • we are not cousins

  • Anyone who likes shemale porn is definitely sus... He's probably not straight..

  • He's probably gay

  • That’s a huge problem

  • Sounds like he is probably in the closet and does not want to get disowned by his family.

  • He's queer as a three dollar bill.

  • He's coming out of the closet, lol.

  • Damn no sex for 2 years. I think he's gay or something else. You're just 20. Leave him as soon as possible

  • he may be hiding his real feeling or does not know what he wants
    flirt with him and ask why he needs it when he has you.

  • Being a muslim has nothing to do with it - not even close.
    Take that away from the equation and the truth should be very apparent.

  • Shemale porn is actually extraordinarily popular among heterosexual guys. We see boobs and obvious signs of arousal.

  • It's none of your business

  • That sounds very strange. I don't think he finds women sexually attractive🙈

    • You wanna Talk about that?

  • could be a cover or he is just addicted to shemale porn but might be time to say bye bye

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