Why does rough sex seem attractive to women, when it's meant to degrade them?

[Sevenpointfive]

[Lliam]

I would never degrade a woman and I don't know why a woman would want to be degraded. I won't spit in her face or slap her face or boobs no matter what. I won't call her derogatory names unless she gets off on saying things like "I'm your little slut" or "Use me like a fuck doll". Even then, I don't feel comfortable calling her a slut or a whore unless it's just playful and she gets off on it. (I actually never knew a woman who did that.)

Rough sex, though, can be more like "energetic" sex. I love it when a woman gets off on being used hard. I don't consider it degrading if she likes to have her hair gently pulled, my hand on her throat (not squeezed), her arms or wrists restrained, or her ass slapped. I actually love girls who get off on being dominated but not degraded.

[lightbulb27]

First off, women want "gone into". That's woman... as it produces offspring. It's the intensity that you question.

Wounds control. Think about what woman kind has lived and dealt with throught timespan of humanity. Theyv'e been violated and abused over and ove and over. That traumatic programming gets programmed in as "normal" or "good". It's heightened emotion to be molested by some invading army as countless women had to endure and their offspring took up. Pattern repeats.

Thats my guess... women are more "emotional" in their swings as it is, so anything more intense creates more feeling, which can seem enjoyable.

It feeds the sense of being feminine or weaker... the one that is "taken".

[Anonymous]

Because some women have a degradation fetish.

Other women like to feel weak, or like to feel that their man is powerful.

Other women just think the stronger/rougher the stimulation, the better it feels, and it's got nothing to do with degradation or power dynamics in their mind.

And some women just don't like rough sex at all.

[Lowiu]

Because once it just feels good and seeing my boyfriend being strong and dominant really turns me on

[PositiveFlight]

I’m not sure other than I feel like society has been conditioned to accept it. 20 years ago women would not have been that self disrespecting. A lot of it stems from material such as Fifty Shades of Grey and other messed up psychotic ideas pushed in porn and in movies.

I’ve been accused of being vanilla or too boring by several people on here when it comes to my sexuality. I’ll take that as a compliment. I’d rather go without sex than treat a woman in a way which goes against everything I was taught growing up as far as respecting womanhood. I would rather be sexual in a way that is romantic and loving, caring and natural, or not at all.

[OlderAndWiser]

Why do some women want to be called "slut" or "cumbucket?"

[megabamse]

Because it feels good. Like picture this. Your jurking off, do you then have a limp grip and jurk off all soft and slow? No you grab that fucker and have a fucking battle royal with that cock til you come don't you? Same with woman most of the time. It feels great

[cth96190]

Because they crave to be dominated sexually and ‘used’.

[hbg84]

Honestly I have no clue. To me it seems like some sort of mental disorder that they have. I've talked to many women that have a degradation kink and rape fantasies. It just seems odd to me

[shades777]

They just want your stamp of approval lol

[Guardian45]

Because some women get pleasure from submitting, being possessed, manhandled and degraded with rough sex by men or other women.

[Charliefretz329]

It shows dominance and strength and capability to protect

[Anonymous]

Mental illness

[Anonymous]

It's the animal instincts of a man pounding into you that is exciting.

[MasterKS]

this is how it should be done.

[Charliefretz329]

Yesssss 🦁

[Anonymous]

I don't want to be degraded just dominated. Having my ass slapped, a bit of hair pulling, throat grabbing, being thrusted into hard.

[Guardian45]

I agree