If I don't cum and want to, I've learned to be a big girl and fix it myself. Stop being a victim, it's male biology and you aren't helpless.
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SjE78Guru
+1 y
it shouldn't, every relationship i have had i made sure even if i came before we both finished i kept going until she was satisfied... only relationship where that wasn't the case was my last girlfriend who would feel satified throughout and wanna stop after i came... probably cos she would have cum so many times before, that she couldn't take much more...
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likelyOKYoda
+1 y
It’s selfish if he does not get you off period, if he does. I also think it makes them looks inexperienced. Don’t they know we all talk to each other?
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GingerGuyMaster
+1 y
You're with the wrong guys then. I'm still there until she does or doesn't want anymore. I'm all for round 2 as well!
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CelteroGuru
+1 y
Because men are actually in control of their orgasms and can make them happen. Many women can't even give themselves orgasms when masturbating and if they can it's usually with the help of some 8 inch hyper vibrating ultra dildo. I'm sure if men just flopped on their backs and expected someone to make an orgasm happen to them they'd be disappointed to.
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john23232323
+1 y
best answer in my opinion!!!
Hangry22
+1 y
@celtero I orgasm everytime i masturbate without a dildo and with no fingering🙋♀️
SoapySandwich
+1 y
Haha usually an 8 inch ultra dildo? Where do you live that this is the norm XD
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Celtero
+1 y
@Hangry22 I'm being hyperbolic.
LiamSawyerGuru
+1 y
My girl would cum several times from oral before I enter her hot, wet pussy to give he another orgasm before I cum in her.
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JDavid25Guru
+1 y
Because it takes 2 people to have sex, and since usually the guy is the one doin most of the movin, and the one Penetrating then usually it can't continue after unless he happens to wanna still eat and whatnot..
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Reaperbot666Guru
+1 y
I make it a priority each sexual encounter that my female partner gets to orgasm at least once each encounter. however if given time to recharge and/or we use some foreplay I can typically got a few rounds. so maybe your just not going for the right type of guys. because there's not much point if we both don't get to feel pleasure.
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Reaperbot666
+1 y
typo *typically go a few rounds.*
slizzle01Xper 5
+1 y
Girl if you don't finish that's on you. And if you want to keep going, keep going. Keep riding or have him eat you or masturbate. It's your job to make you cum not your partner's.
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DavidFoxYoda
+1 y
It doesn’t stop when the guy cums. Who told you that?
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bowenwMaster
+1 y
Many guys don't stay erect after cumming so they need to finish their partner in a different way besides with their dick. Keep a vibrator handy so he can finish you with it. Of course there's always oral, although many guys won't eat a pussy they've just cum into. Another option is to try to cum before the guy or simultaneously. That may require you to finger yourself during sex or letting him take a short break if he's getting close to cumming before you. If he always cums too soon in a particular position, try to find a less tight position. Other options to consider are a cock ring or desensitizing cream.
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Ripper_EMaster
+1 y
A lot of guys cannot keep going afterwards, or simply aren't good at control, or it's extremely difficult to make his girl orgasm. Of course if she fakes her orgasms, she isn't doing herself any favors.
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Anpu23Master
+1 y
Because no means no. If the guy doesn't want to continue he has the right to stop just as women do. Further shaming him for that is simply rapey. Former consent does not guarantee present consent.
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SomeGuyCalledTomGuru
+1 y
I don't understand your question. I always make sure the girl climaxes, even if it means finishing with fingers/tongue/toys. Of course a guy can't keep fucking a girl long after he orgasms, but that doesn't mean he can't finish the job through other means
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Tea-SpaghettiExplorer
+1 y
Yup cause our orgasm matters more I guess :)
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postempestas
+1 y
Says who
Tea-Spaghetti
+1 y
I'm just joking around haha. In my fantasy it's just my orgasm but in real life it's both people I guess. Or sometimes just her orgasm if you're in the giving mood too.
Phoenix98Master
+1 y
Biology lol.
in most cases a guys dick is gonna go limp after cuming unless your a guy who can stay hard afterwards.
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pigoatGuru
+1 y
Why you mad about it
Just don't have sex with that dude anymore
He obviously don't give a fuck about your sexual needs
Lol
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CasaNorbaGuru
+1 y
unlike you women we men aren't multiorgasmic. when we ejaculate are prostates need a break and a recharge
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KerubysiOXper 3
+1 y
Who said that? Please stop asking random things just to play the victim role
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magiusX26Guru
+1 y
i have never cum 1st. except the 1st few attempts at sex, all my partners have cum 1 or more times before i cum. quite a few have had 5 plus before i get mine.
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19 98If I don't cum and want to, I've learned to be a big girl and fix it myself. Stop being a victim, it's male biology and you aren't helpless.
it shouldn't, every relationship i have had i made sure even if i came before we both finished i kept going until she was satisfied... only relationship where that wasn't the case was my last girlfriend who would feel satified throughout and wanna stop after i came... probably cos she would have cum so many times before, that she couldn't take much more...
It’s selfish if he does not get you off period, if he does. I also think it makes them looks inexperienced. Don’t they know we all talk to each other?
You're with the wrong guys then. I'm still there until she does or doesn't want anymore. I'm all for round 2 as well!
Because men are actually in control of their orgasms and can make them happen. Many women can't even give themselves orgasms when masturbating and if they can it's usually with the help of some 8 inch hyper vibrating ultra dildo. I'm sure if men just flopped on their backs and expected someone to make an orgasm happen to them they'd be disappointed to.
best answer in my opinion!!!
@celtero I orgasm everytime i masturbate without a dildo and with no fingering🙋♀️
Haha usually an 8 inch ultra dildo? Where do you live that this is the norm XD
@Hangry22 I'm being hyperbolic.
My girl would cum several times from oral before I enter her hot, wet pussy to give he another orgasm before I cum in her.
Because it takes 2 people to have sex, and since usually the guy is the one doin most of the movin, and the one Penetrating then usually it can't continue after unless he happens to wanna still eat and whatnot..
I make it a priority each sexual encounter that my female partner gets to orgasm at least once each encounter. however if given time to recharge and/or we use some foreplay I can typically got a few rounds. so maybe your just not going for the right type of guys. because there's not much point if we both don't get to feel pleasure.
typo *typically go a few rounds.*
Girl if you don't finish that's on you. And if you want to keep going, keep going. Keep riding or have him eat you or masturbate. It's your job to make you cum not your partner's.
It doesn’t stop when the guy cums. Who told you that?
Many guys don't stay erect after cumming so they need to finish their partner in a different way besides with their dick. Keep a vibrator handy so he can finish you with it. Of course there's always oral, although many guys won't eat a pussy they've just cum into. Another option is to try to cum before the guy or simultaneously. That may require you to finger yourself during sex or letting him take a short break if he's getting close to cumming before you. If he always cums too soon in a particular position, try to find a less tight position. Other options to consider are a cock ring or desensitizing cream.
A lot of guys cannot keep going afterwards, or simply aren't good at control, or it's extremely difficult to make his girl orgasm. Of course if she fakes her orgasms, she isn't doing herself any favors.
Because no means no. If the guy doesn't want to continue he has the right to stop just as women do. Further shaming him for that is simply rapey. Former consent does not guarantee present consent.
I don't understand your question. I always make sure the girl climaxes, even if it means finishing with fingers/tongue/toys. Of course a guy can't keep fucking a girl long after he orgasms, but that doesn't mean he can't finish the job through other means
Yup cause our orgasm matters more I guess :)
Says who
I'm just joking around haha. In my fantasy it's just my orgasm but in real life it's both people I guess. Or sometimes just her orgasm if you're in the giving mood too.
Biology lol.
in most cases a guys dick is gonna go limp after cuming unless your a guy who can stay hard afterwards.
Why you mad about it
Just don't have sex with that dude anymore
He obviously don't give a fuck about your sexual needs
Lol
unlike you women we men aren't multiorgasmic. when we ejaculate are prostates need a break and a recharge
Who said that? Please stop asking random things just to play the victim role
i have never cum 1st. except the 1st few attempts at sex, all my partners have cum 1 or more times before i cum. quite a few have had 5 plus before i get mine.