Because waiting till having a dating relationship isn't going to change the value of sex. Sex is still sex. That's why when those who waited for marriage to have sex, the value of sex increases. Marriage thrives on love, and sex helps bond and increase that love. What it is, is that people don't understand what love is and lost the value of love, not sex, except in marriage's nowadays, because they have built their foundation on lust instead. Lust is what's driving marriages and relationships today into a bottomless pit. And I'm talking about all over the world, not just here in the western countries. You're just seeing what the real deal is about with modern dating in this real world. All the more reason why smart people stay out of it. And until people start doing what is right, we're going to continue to see more heartbroken people who are no longer fit for dating or marriage.
Because humans dont love anymore. you see young kids with empty eyes, apathetic like zombies, with a look "i've exeprienced everything", but there is no meaningful connection. the hearts are empty. sex is like a sport or a way to numb their senses and forget their upcoming death.
People are different, feelings, culture and also have different experiences with this subject.
Personally I value sex, the intimacy, sharing it with someone I care about, however this is me. Never the less, I don't judge others for doing it different.
sex has no inherent value. maybe it had more value back in the day when contraceptives more widely used and sex was mostly about starting a family. but we live in the future about condoms birth control Etc all that s*** is a reality so there's no need to build up emotional relationships and have the constant fear if it's surprise family when you can prevent that and just do this completely natural act for fun
I'm looking for something real myself. I don't chase skirts just for sex. But then again if a girl walked up to be and asked "want to have sex?" I would probably say "umb lau ameo vwjpvonds dsfoippndsoew, Sure!"
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!If you see it as something special and want to wait, great. If I don't see it that way, great. Personally, I'm not sure why you'd want to make one of the great pleasures of life rare, and cut yourself off from it.
Eh, to each their own. Some people keep it for special occasions and some people pass it around like hallmark cards. Personal perspective I suppose.
It is the norm today sadly, I value it though
Times have changed I guess.
i get your point.. and i agree... its that whole friends with benefits culture that ruined it
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