Why does she feel so bad about having sex?

So I have been dating a girl, but she's kind of a mess.

She constantly makes sexy advances on me, but when we reach the point of having sex she instantly turns off. It feels quite robotic and I have never had such problem with anyone else in the past.

If I don't make that kind of advances on her, the same happens! She feels desolated of not having such contact. There's no good option!

Why could be this?
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  • I need a bit more information... How did you meet? When? Whats going on between you to, are you dating, just flirting, just casual, or friends, what?

    • We have known each other for two years, and before starting dating we meet like 4 times. After that she invited me to go to a festival, and after that we have been together like a hole week. Dating. The more the week advanced the weirded it got. It's like she's super vigilant about things going wrong, specially on the sex department.

    • Yeah she's attracted to you but thinks you'll leave once you have sex and that's not what she wants. Don't know why you don't both just talk it out.

    • She may have abuse in her past or could be playing hard to get. Take your time.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Try coming on to her more 🤷 I don't know be more straight forward! With it!.

    • How old is she?

    • That doesn't work! In contrast to any other girl I have known, she is easily turned off by ANY kind of sexy innuendo, including light flirting about it. Weird. She had quite shocking sex experiences in the past. So it looks she needs to make sure I'm not that kind of guy. Or perhaps I should troll her instead. By the way she is 21 :D

    • 21 is young but who am I to make judgement. Just treat her with respect. An just take your time, take her feelings into consideration.

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  • Maybe she was raped, molested or assaulted in her past, and she has trauma. Or maybe she’s scared of sex.

    • She told me she was, and even explained me the situation.

    • Well what more do you need to know. Its fairly self-explanatory.

    • @NorthShoreCalling I asked the question before getting the explanation.

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