Why does she want me to choke her?

[Anonymous]

why when i am taking my friends with benefits from behind anally she sometimes wants me to choke her until she almost passes out? Doesn't it hurt and feel bad?

[Can-I-Get-A-DoOver]

That’s dangerous. You can’t have a do over if you accidentally go too far and she dies. See if there’s another way, safer, to excite her sexually. Maybe she’s just exploding with pent up sexual desire and will calm down after a while. What about rough sex? Or role playing? You just can’t be choking her to seconds of her life. Just give her the illusion of what she wants. Male dominant sex?

[Asker]

maybe she'll like bondage or something where her arms are tied behind her back. I like the way her ass feels though

[Can-I-Get-A-DoOver]

@asker Remember, the mind is a powerful erogenous zone. Use it to get her where she wants to be. Get her to her low zone or wherever she wants to go by talking to her. Research it but you can tell her things then ask her to reply or repeat from her voice. Examples: “Are you mine, baby? Tell me.” (“Yes, I’m yours.”) “I’m going to make you mine. Do you want that, baby?” (“Yes. I want that that.” “Tell me you want me to make you mine.” (“I want you to make me yours.”) “I’m going to tie your arms back. You won’t be able to move but you’re safe. You’re safe with me, baby. Use the safe word and I’ll release you. We can try again.”) “Show my how you O, baby. Don’t hold back. Don’t hide anything from me... that looks nice baby.” Or role play rough sex. Read the rough sex parts from an erotic novel and tell her you’re going to do that to her (with consent.) Baby steps. Don’t raise the bar too far starting out. Leave things to progress to. You will be able to find safe alternate sexually exciting things but remember her mind before the actions. Text her something provocative and mysterious but always assure her she’s safe. And then be her protector when she’s vulnerable. I suspect she’s an inferno of sexual desire, hopefully just for you, and you can mold that into other erotic activities that she probably doesn’t know about. She just found out about the choking thing and went for it because of her limited experience and knowledge. You need to read, learn, communicate, and explore together but you have the potential to blow vanilla out of the water. Do your homework. Lol be open minded to stuff you automatically think is yuk.

[Dinklex3]

A dominant thing. I don't know.
My friends with benefits chokes me. I never thought I'd be into to it, but he's super dominant and it gets me dripping.

[Asker]

Yeah its like that

[TraceyByrd]

She's such a crazy bytch like ughh juss shoot her then she'll be happy

[Zebadee88]

Drrrrr. Try asking her!!!

[Asker]

No! She may think i have a problem with it, but i like the way her butthole tightens up

[asshole_]

some girls get off on that shit

[Anonymous]

It’s some supposed way to increase orgasm intensity but personally I think it’s a bit stupid and potentially dangerous. Like someone else said there used to be a thing called the choking game where people mostly teenagers would end up choking to death because they cut off the oxygen to their brains while trying to restrict their neck to get an euphoric experience

[Asker]

Maybe its different if someone else does it to you I don't know

[Anonymous]

Some people like to feel dominated. Maybe even a little bit in danger. It's a turn on. Oxygen deprivation also intensifies the feelings of pleasure. That's why so many men have died choking themselves with a belt in their closet while masturbating.

[Asker]

wait wut?