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Sexual Health Why does society slut-shame on women but not on men? Are you against slut-shaming or do you think both men and women should be slut-shamed?
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Before you f*cktards get offended, i want to say that especially conservative people IN MY EXPERIENCE are hypocritical when it comes to sexuality. So it is an anectodal statement. I mean you are either slut shame on both men or women or noone. I personally see no reason to slutshame anybody. I also think if you are promiscuous man, go find someone like you.
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I also dont understand some f*ggots who blame women for promiscuous men. As if men can't say No to sex.
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7 39I don't consider slut-shaming should be on women only. If I am open to have sex with many girls, a girl should have such a freedom without being labelled slut or like wise.
Both should be slut shamed
Typically takes more effort for a guy to get laid than it does for a woman. Kind of an accomplishment, as I understand.
I think shaming period is stupid. Now if I feel something is wrong, I will usually go to the individual (usually someone I know and have a friendship with) and tell them I think it’s a bad idea to do XY or Z.. but if it is someone I don’t know and i was told or have seen patterns. No, live your life
This old chesnut. Men are shamed for sleeping around as well. The argument people often make about guys being congratulated on sleeping around doesn't happen as much as you think
Also as we are one the topic. Why is it that if a girl sleeps with lots of people she'll be, defended about her expirementing sexually. Yet a guy does it and he is marked as a player?
Being Player and sleeping around are different things
From what I've seen from people. They are used interchangably If you're going to tarnish men with that brush then tarnish everyone with the same brush. can't be one rule for men and another for women Likewise if your congraulating women for expirmenting sexually then do the same for men Ofc outliers will be there
I am personally against slut- shaming.
"Likewise if your congraulating women for expirmenting sexually then do the same for men" of course
And thats fine. My argument is that whatever side of the fence you fall down on make sure you are not doing it selectivley
No one should be slut shaming anyone.
Men are designed to spread their "seed" while women are designed (all by natural selection) to be picky because of long pregnancies.
But with birthcontrol.. why revert to primitive nonsense?
Both men and women should be slut shamed.
But its much more important to slut shame women, because if you can convince women not to be sluts, men automatically follow that lead. You’ll never be able to convince men not to be sluts while women remain sluts. This is why social engineers targeted women during the ‘sexual revolution’
Are men unable to control themself? It is oppsite in my experience. Muslim men sleep around and then except a virgin woman
muslims r fkd tho
the way society got women to control themselves is by hijacking existing biological drives. A woman has a biological drive to get impregnated by a man who will take care of her and the child, she has an incentive to keep her legs closed because it could mean her life if the wrong man gets her pregnant in the wild. Men can spray and pray all day and never get pregnant and don't need anyone to take care of them. There is a reason we controlled sexuality through women
We dont live in stone age. There are birth control to prevent pregnancy. Go control first men
No, go control yourself. Stop blaming women for promiscuous people. Men are adults who can say no to sex.
"we don't live in the stone age, true, but our biology is still from that era." By that logic women should not control their hypergamous nature which is hated by everyone Biology does not force you to be promiscuous
Dude we don't live in the stone age. That is not how things work. Both women and men want sex simply because it's fun and feels good. And that is it. No reason to make it more complicated then that. When people find someone they want to have kids with they do. Again simple. Also, yes men can control themselves.
well i personally think its the fact that men have been doing this sense the beginning in short its uncommon for a women to do it which is why people get offended by it cause they aren't use to it men how ever have always had sex with lots of girls so its not uncommon for it to happen and as for anybody being slut shaming i personally dc
Nobody should be insulted be it any gender, its nobody's how many sexual partners did a person had in past
Are you looking for a logical reason?
I mean, there really isn't one. Society's been fucked up for a while, and it's so ingrained even women are doing it to each other. I personally despise the words "slut", "whore" etc. not only because, well, they're rude, but also because there's absolutely no objectivity behind them whatsoever. What's the cutoff point for being a slut?
So are you against promiscuous behaviour
Nah I don't care what people do behind closed doors
As a 23 yo virgin I’d rather be slut shamed than be virgin shamed. Being made fun of for never having partner hurts worse. At least sluts have hot sex to take their mind of the ridicule
1 most of the people who slutshame ARE women
2 men have to work for sex a lot harder than women do. If a woman wants to get laid she could get laid in an hour. If a man wants to get laid unless he's well endowed or has some regular women he's with he's not gonna be getting it for a bit
You can go prostitutes to become promiscuous
Society does slut shame men, is called philandering and men usually get an assbeating for it hell men have been killed over it.
I do slut-shame a male acquaintance of mine since he's always like the world would end once a woman rejected him, and if he still has chances with her, he's like a wolf with his prey.
Men don't get pregnant. Slut shaming was common when women would sleep with other men when their men were out to war.
With other men? Hahaga these guys were homosexual
If you get pregnant and say it ain't my child it would be women out of money raising child on her own in the 50s. There wasn't DNA test to proof he was a father. Slut shaming was common.
Ohh get
Get it
I don't slut-shame. Hell if it weren't for sluts some guys would never get laid!!
It should be equal either way.
Both of them should be called out on it.
BECAUSE SOCIETY IS JUDGMENTAL, AND ALMOST ALWAYS WRONG IN THEIR WAYS... IT TAKES TWO, SO THAT WOULD MAKE EVERYONE A SLUT... NOTHING WRONG WITH SEX, EVEN MULTIPLE PEOPLE, AS LONG AS EVERYONE IS AWARE OF THE OTHER...