Why doesn't he always give me oral sex? And I do blowjob every time we have sex, is this ok?

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I give him oral sex every time we have sex, i don't mind because i like it. But i noticed he does it to me only sometimes, and usually not for long time. I wonder if it is normal and if it's ok?

I rarely orgasm from penetration, i still like it.. but i can orgasm only with oral sex. So isn't it a bit selfish from him?

bowenw · Accepted Answer

In most situation the guy wants be satisfied as well as to satisfy his partner. If you're not being satisfied it's not okay and it's time to discuss this with him. You may want to ask him if there's something he doesn't like about eating you. A decent guy will appreciate being told and do whatever he can to improve. Maybe he would prefer if you were shaved if you aren't, or vice versa. Perhaps he would like it better if you used some flavored products like "Pussy Licker". Also ask if he would like to eat you in a different position than normal. If you're usually on your back, try getting into a downward dog, or sitting on his face.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Talk to him about it. Let him know what you'd like. All about communication. Maybe he has some kind of issue with it, or maybe he simply doesn't think about it and thinks you're happy the way it is. If you don't say anything, he won't know. It's only "ok" if you're "ok" with it. If you're not, then no.

richard1988 · Answer

Tell him you want to do the position 69 with him while you are letting him fuck you that is what a X girlfriend of mine liked to do as long as we did that for about 15 minutes then she would let me fuck her for however long I wanted to which usually was at least two hours if there was no chance of anybody hearing or disturbing us which was great for her and even more better for me so she was happy and I was even more happier with it. X

Red_Arrow · Answer

I don’t understand guys like that. He should be doing it just because you need it. No orgasm without oral. But beyond that, I personally love doing it and would want to every time!

summiter · Answer

You deserve some great orgasms also. What is fair is fair. Tell him that you enjoy receiving oral until you orgasm. Maybe just give him some handjobs until he gets the message! How often are you two hooking up?

slatyb · Answer

Have you told him this? What did he say? You should be able to find a mutually satisfying arrangement.

ColHathi · Answer

Sounds unfair, yeah. Have you talked to him about it?

Gedaria · Answer

Sounds ok to me...

Valnac · Answer

Very selfish. I always take care of her, then she takes care of me.

B2281 · Answer

Well it sounds a little selfish. Have you talked to him about it? If not you should.  Personally this is something a woman will never have to worry about with me because I love it.