Why doesn't he like to go down on me?

[hali19]

I am in a relationship for 2 years and had an oral from my bf only once. Is it really that disgusting? I wash myself every day and shave every other day..

[lessthenzero]

Does he know you want him to go down on you? Id try talking to him, it doesn't have to be confrontational or even awkward. If he doesn't like it try to find out why.
I dated one guy that would only perform oral drunk, the thought grossed him out bc a friend of his was joking around with him when he was younger the guy told my ex when you think about everything that goes on down there its gross (periods, childbirth, urine, semen) and it just screwed with his head, drunk he didn't think about it so i didn't get him to do it often but when i really wanted it we brought out the bourbon.
I dated another guy that didn't realize it was something i wanted semi reguarly we were joking around one night i said something he told me i could find a better use for my mouth (than running it) and i told him to stfu bc i had fiund a better use way more often than him since we had been together when i said that it hit him we eventually had a conversation about it but after that comment he was more than willing to go down
Point is it could be a lot of things and you won't know until you talk to him about it, your only other options are to suffer in silence or leave him

[kaylaS91]

Try to bring up how much you enjoyed it when he did it. I was in the same position as you not too long ago, having been with my boyfriend for lets say 6 months, during which he had only gone down on me once. I loved it a lot, but that only happened once during our first month so I figured I must have tasted horrible or something.

One day he asked me what I would like him to do more of in bed and I brought that up. He said he loved doing that, I had tasted really sweet supposedly he was just not sure if he was good enough. Now he goes down on me at least once or twice every time we get a chance to mess around so trust me, it's worth it just giving him a head up as to how much you miss it!

[PiuBelloAmante]

My ex-girlfriend expressed the same thing to me. it works @hali19 we did it everytime before making love Another pointer if he is doing it wrong guide him, tell him what feels good, and always reciprocate

[Nicetouchguy]

No, it's not disgusting. In my opinion, any guy who won't go down on his woman doesn't deserve her. If he's really into you he would enjoy doing what pleases you. I love giving oral. Stimulating the clit and G-spot and bringing her to the brink of orgasm a few times then stopping. Then when she does orgasm, it's really, really INTENSE! I've actually had a couple of women squirt, who never squirted. Hey, if he won't do it to you, I'd be happy to.

[hali19]

wow, lucky girls :) mmm, it will be cheating to try it with someone else. it seems stupid though to break up only because of sex

[Nicetouchguy]

I disagree. Even relationships where the sex is good, the sex with the same person gets stale after so many years;and, it needs to be spiced up;so, starting off being unsatisfied would be a break-up waiting to happen.

[madhatters4]

some guys just aren't into the same way some girls are into going down on guys.

why doesn't he like to? you need to talk to him about that to find out his specific objections to doing it

[hali19]

ok. not easy to do that. when should I ask about it? after or before sex? or at random point in the day?

[madhatters4]

outside of sex. just start a conversation. a part of a healthy happy relationship is being able to productively talk about your sex lives.

[madhatters4]

remember it's a conversation not an inquisition. so you should express how you feel and what you want and be open to his response. listen to what he has to say and go from there. the ultimate goal is for him to see your point, you see his, or finding a compromise

[hali19]

thank you very much

[parkway]

Maybe it is the shaving. Dump old boy and find yourself a really dumb guy who has not problem with searching make you number 1.

[BeInnovative]

U r most likely not clean

[wanttolicku]

Guy doesn't realize the pleasure he is missing. Its the best way to show your woman how much her pleasure means to a guy. I prefer it to penetration.

[hali19]

wow..

[vet31bSoldier]

Have you tried asking him?

[Editor]

You're with somebody who just doesn't like giving women oral. Must guys love to eat pussy.

[hali19]

ugh, thanks.. that "helped" a lot

[Dragan]

I really do not know why. Vagina is such an exciting place.

[redhot3969]

He must be a damn ass. I would go down on you everyday. My girl hates when I try to go down on her she thinks is disgusting.

[hali19]

oh.. what a world :)) no one has a matching partner, haha

[redhot3969]

I KNOW I LOVE GOING DOWN BERFORE , DURING AND AFTER. YUM, YUM

[SatanClaus]

Ask him why! Try to spice things up a little, Play with food or some sort of edible paint or something like. Make it fun for him instead of making him feel like it's an obligation for him to do it. Your guy has been ignoring your needs and has a selfish, immature attitude.