Why doesn't he want to have sex with me?

Hello guys I am in a dilemma I am with this guy who we are friends but he likes me and I pretty much like him back and I am a virgin and I want to lose my virginity to him and the problem comes whenever we want to have sex he pushes back the first time we did it we made out and he stopped in the middle of the way and said I cannot do this to you and then the second time we tried it he tried to tell me that he's horny and that I don't want to take that advantage on you but he just tucked me in and when we just almost getting started he told me that he had to quickly run back home which is a total lie and it's not like he's not good in what he does cause he sleeps with tons of other girls what do you think he feels about me
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Superb Opinion

  • I suspect he likes you, but not enough to be in a relationship with you. He cares about you enough to not want to take your virginity without giving you the relationship he thinks you deserve. He might be worried that you will feel very attached to him if he takes your virginity, and he's not sure if he wants to stick around or be exclusive to you. I would suggest talking about it with him and explaining that you feel ready for sex and what your expectations are afterwards.

Most Helpful Guy

  • So he sleeps with tons of other girls and this is the loser you want to give your virginity to, a random fuckboy smh. Why not A NICE BOY who doesn't sleep around? A good guy that wants to be in a relationship with you. This is why girls are stupid.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think he realizes he’s not into you enough to take your virginity. It means it wouldn’t go anywhere so you should save yourself for a better situation.

  • His mind might not be into it. Or it's on someone else.

    • Makes me think of the guy I was talking to. He was dating a virgin also. And he has slept with a lot sluts. His name is barry though.

    • 😂😂😂😂We just share common stories but I can guarantee you he's not barry

    • Hope not.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Is he just nervous around you. You said he is not a virgin so he should know what to do. Have you talked to him about it? It is ok to talk about sex after all. How old is this guy?

    • He is 22

  • Maybe he's just not into you sexually or he sees you as more than just a woman he wants to sleep with, it could also be he feels guilty of it because you are innocent, there's unlimited possibilities I guess, it's your job now to investigate it tho

  • He might actually care about you and realize that he is not the right one for you. Odd as it sounds.

  • because sex can mess up a good friendship

  • Because you shouldn’t lose your virginity out of marriage

  • Sounds like he cares about you too much to have sex with you and then hurt you. Maybe just talk with him? Good luck and I’m kinda curious as to what happens

  • i wish i was there