Why doesn’t he want to use protection?

[Anonymous]

why doesn’t he want to use protection with me? he is aware I’m a virgin but isn’t it safer to use protection…

[Lliam]

If you are going to become sexually active, you should get on some kind of contraception.

Condoms aren't great. They detract from the sexual experience.

Neither of you can feel anything from the nerve endings on the surface of your skin during penetration. What would you feel if you petted a furry kitten while wearing surgical gloves?

With a condom, he can't feel your juiciness, which is one of the best things about penetration.

Putting on a condom every time you want to have sex is awkward and takes away the spontaneity.

So I can understand why he prefers not to use condoms. But he's an idiot to take chances getting you pregnant if you aren't on some kind of birth control. You would both be taking a huge risk.

Every girlfriend I ever had was on the pill. We had juicy, unbridled sex. I calculated that I've came inside women well over 5,000 times with never a pregnancy scare. And they didn't mention any adverse reactions to the pill. They had normal periods and their bodies functioned perfectly normally.

[convo_king89]

He likes the felling of raw and condoms “get in the way” condoms are safer for std and getting knocked up. But it’s like sleeping naked vs with clothes.. bodly guilds can get on the blanket but it is more comfy..

[dynamicyandere]

Of course it’s safer to use protection.


But, it DOES feel better to not use a condom.


Would he stay with you if you were to get pregnant?


Would he raise your child?


If not, then he’s just making a selfish decision, wanting to put his own pleasure above your well-being and future.


I’d be wary if he refuses to use protection, without the commitment of being a father.

[OfMiceandMen]

Does he think the protection will make it worse in some way?

He should wear protection just to be sure you don't get pregnant. Even the pill is not 100% effective.

[worldscolide]

Because it feels better for both.. But if you're not on birth control, and he has not has a recent std test, the risks outweigh the rewards.. It's your body your choice.

[Jersey2]

He thinks you are naive and can be pressured into it. He will, leave you with a choice to make, be a single mother or have an abortion. Either way you might get a sexually transmitted disease.

[kellytheman]

It is safer and he should from prevent a unplanned pregnancy and STDs however it does feel better without so that why he doesn’t wear a condom but tell him why.

[Z1pTD]

Use protection. Don't budge on that.

[MasterKS]

Condom feels worse so many mostly avoid it, but protection is must which one is depend upon you both.

[Anonymous]

He wants to get you pregnant and give you any STDs he has (it may only be HPV; but who knows).

[Anonymous]

Because nothing feels better than entering a woman with nothing between you