Guys, why doesn't my boyfriend cum during sex?

He gets hard touching me and I get wet when he touching my pussy. I touch him I go down on him before sex. We usually do doggy first so he controls then he wants me on top ( I'm not the best ) I need more grinding I guess but I never seem to make him and we end the sex like that. He never even mention he not Cumming even tho I want to mention because it bothers me that he ignores it. Why he doing that?
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  • Cowgirl tips
    Here’s the way I have found, with the help of a very cooperative girlfriend, that a woman can ride her man all the way up the mountain to multiple, increasing powerful orgasms and ultimately, squirting.
    • He needs to understand that he can help with this position by grabbing her hips and helping her move. At first, leave to her own devices but as she gets more and more aroused, he should become stronger and more and more forceful in moving her back and forth.
    • Put him on his back and mount up with you on your knees.
    • Slide him in and settle in so you’re comfortable.
    • Rock like you’re riding a horse, slowly at first and faster as you get more aroused.
    • When you’re ready for him to help, reach down and put his hands on your hips. For effect, you can beg him in your sexy slut voice to help you.
    • When you start to get close to cumming, move like you’re trying your best to break that thing off. Of course, you won’t but the point is to not hold back. Just go crazy.
    • When you’re right on the edge, tell him to do you. He thrusts up as powerfully as he can and holds it with you impaled as deeply on his cock as possible, perched on his erection. He also forcefully tilts his hips and slams his shaft into your G-spot.
    • As you cum, don’t even slow down. Keep going and you will cum over and over, each time increasingly intense.
    • If you have The Big One, as I call it, you may very likely squirt so if there’s a gush, it’s not urine. It’s female ejaculate. Keep going until you’re completely done.
    Here are a few ancillary suggestions:
    • Pee first so that if you should squirt, you can be confident it’s not pee.
    • If you’re into S&M, have him forcefully pinch your nipples as you’re starting to cum.
    • He can slap your tits around if you’re into that. One girlfriend of mine liked to be slapped while she was up there with me telling her what a trashy slut she was for being up there in the first place.
    • Some ladies like their men to reach around and smack their ass while they ride.

  • If he's your age I would think he's just too focused on getting you off. I used to say "Anything after 3 minutes means he loves you." As a joke of course but Men can finish much faster if they only worry about themselves.

    • But I thought a guy Cumming was like the end of sex and the main point to.

    • If you're referring to procreation than yes it is. But by current standards men can't afford to leave a woman unsatisfied in the bedroom less they be mocked and looked down upon by society.

    • I mean u get tour point but do you get that I feel I don't satisfied my guy? This whole thing about no Cumming get me insecure

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  • is that seriously how you do it every time... you should really change it up. that would get so boring :/

    or why not ask why he doesn't cum. its not like its awkward..

    or maybe he's gay

    • Is not a everyday thing let's just say some days he cums and others he just lags to cum or doesn't cum at all. I feel like I don't satisfied him a lot.

    • but why do you just stop and leave it as that? you should ride him or talk dirty or try your hardest to make him cum... maybe he gets bored cuz it seems like you're not into it or something

    • Because he has to leave for work so it's very hard to end with our he Cumming. I usually stay so wet and make him touch me and all that. I let him fuck me how ever he wants and if he cums I always ask him to cum inside my mouth. I don't know why he still don't cum.

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  • It could mean many things but look at it this way, if it doesn't bother him, don't let it bother you.

    • Well if it doesn't bother him I'm wondering why , I'm taking it to the next thing like is someone else doing my job? Is he masturbate a lot you know.

    • Assuming he is near your age, then he would have to be crawling right out of her bed into yours for cheating to make any difference.

  • I'm the same way and I never talked about it because I didn't really give a shit. I still enjoyed the sex but it made my ex very insecure, whereas it was an afterthought to me. There isn't an obvious cause in my case and while having an orgasm is nice, I can live without it and I enjoy pleasing my partner more anyways.

    • That's great but u see a female wants to feel pleasure during sex which I do but I also want my partner to feel pleasure and if he don't cum I feel like he didn't really like it to the point I made him cum.

    • I mean I guess its possible that you are doing something wrong but its more likely that he just has a hard time reaching orgasm. It happens to both genders believe it or not, it just isn't as common as with women. It doesn't mean he isn't enjoying himself. And on the upside, there's no cleanup so he can go straight to relaxing/cuddling when you are done.

    • It has happened to me most of my life too. It never bothered me, but as you noted it didn't make my girlfriend very happy after she started noticing.

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  • Maybe he masturbates a lot generally. Or he simply doesn't care about that in the end it is not that important

  • Is he on aitidepressents

    • Nope his not.