Why doesn't my boyfriend want me to masturbate?

My boyfriend insists that he can always give me pleasure even when he isn't completely horny regardless (I have a very high sex drive.. he doesn't). But I felt bad and I told him I'm completely fine with masturbating by myself when he's not in the mood. But he kept saying no... he would do it anyways for me and that it's ok. So why doesn't he want me to masturbate? I thought guys liked the idea of girls masturbating by themselves?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • We'll this one's confusing... mostly because it's completely natural to masterbate when your horny and secondly ye, your right, pretty much every guy enjoys the thought of a gal masterbating, that's literally the thought most of us masterbate to lol. So yeah, I'm just as confused.

  • It's a guy thing. He'll feel like shit if he doesn't feel he can pleasure you when you're in the mood. It could eventually lead to problems and break-up if he thinks he's not able to pleasure you when you want.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Maybe he just wants to take care of you. Sounds sweet in a way. But if you like masturbating talk to him. Maybe tell him to chill a bit

  • Perhaps your masturbating reminds him of his own low sex drive. You have every right to satisfy yourself.

    • Thanks for selecting me MHG.

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  • Dunno.. maybe he just wants to take part because he is horny secretly and act like a whiteknight.

  • Sounds like he's a very prideful man. For he really just wants to make you happy. I know when I am having a relationship with a woman. I love seeing her eyes ran the back of her head as she orgasms.

  • He might feel he isn't enough for you

  • Damn I'd love to watch that what's wrong with him? He'd prolly get hard and fuck you just after watching for a couple minutes

  • If he can get you off in 3 minutes I don't see there being a problem.

    • I take awhile to get off lol

    • He says that now. Give it a week.

  • Ego or he thinks you will go elsewhere, if me I would love to watch you.

  • Its haram xd

  • Because it's not a very feminine thing to do. It's not ladylike. Masturbation is more of a male thing

  • I hate that too

  • I don't know

  • He likes taking care of you and likes getting you off himself. He doesn't want you to feel like he isn't there for you or that he can't do it for you

    • So basically you're saying he's insecure.

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  • I'm puzzled that he doesn't want you to cause I'm a guy and it's like you said we love it when you do. Does he masturbate?

    • He tells me he doesn't feel the need to masturbate, so no he doesn't apparently

    • No disrespect to him but I find it a little difficult to believe he doesn't masturbate. All of us guys do, I'm 38yrs and still do everyday. Have you tried to get you both to masturbate at the same time while watching each other?

    • No we never have done that. He just explains to me he doesn't jack off... I don't know if he's lying

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  • Probly because he is incapable of taking care of your needs

  • If I were him I'd ask if I could watch, that might lead to extra curricular activities :)

  • living can be tiring and decisions regretful, so often we find ourselves
    marching to the beat of obligations’ drummer – unnecessary paths are safely untreaded
    doing only because the doing is necessary – to keep life at its homeostasis
    fixing but not tinkering – the return to normality is the goal
    just accepting these masturbating days for their lukewarm livability

    • Its a question about masturbation, not phylosiphy nor poetry.