Why don't all guys moan loud before they cum?

My roommate's boyfriend groans and grunts when he jerks off to her body on videochat... it's so hot. But some of the guys I've been with are kinda quiet until the "Fuck, I'm gonna cum!" moment.

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  • Lately I’ve gotten louder, but I think I trained myself early on to be quiet. First to not get caught masturbating. Later, having sex. Guys also have less need to show off or prove we’re having fun. We cum. It’s spurts out. It’s difficult to hide. Apart from the occasional oozing deep creampie, there’s little doubt it’s happened. We gain little out of faking it. Girls, on the other hand, want to engage with their partners, and make them feel valued even when they don’t cum themselves. There’s a lot more going on there. It’s more intimate. You’re taking something, someone inside you, absorbing them and literally making them part of you. For a lot of guys, to be crude, it’s just another cum dumpster.

    • Why does a guy making noise mean he's faking? He's groaning with pleasure and lust... geez. It's biological. I just wish you guys that ~had~ to train yourselves to be quiet, could unlearn that conditioning. But I get it... if you don't want to do it, and that's your right. To each their own.

    • It doesn’t. Guys rarely fake. We don’t need to. Like I said, I’ve been getting louder. And I think my partner likes it. I wasn’t always giving her feedback, apart from actually cumming. Now, it helps her know what she’s doing well and probably helps get me off faster, not to mention building the anticipation of when I’m about to cum, which is a turn on for her.

    • Yeah, definitely.🔥

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  • Groaning and grunting is fake and most men have learned to be quiet when young and trying to get away with masturbating.

    Next time your having sex or masturbating think do you really need to make any noises your are or are you making them because you think you are expected to make them sounds.

    I think a quiet woman is a super turn on because you can see more in her expressions as to how she feels and if she does make a noise you know your reaching a new limit or your doing just the right thing!

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  • How do you know your roommates boyfriend does this, have you listened in? I couldn’t tell you why some men are louder or more vocal than others. I’m very vocal when I’m getting pounded but not every woman is. Personally I love when a man just whispers fuuuck when he is about to cum.

    • Umm... don't judge me, but I've been in her room a few times when they're chatting...

    • No judgement

    • Did he know you was in her room?

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  • i like when they grunt like cavemen

    • God yes.

    • haha sometimes you can't help it :P

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  • Every guy is different I guess

  • I used to feel I had to be quiet. Now I enjoy expressing myself, as soon as I slip inside it feels too good and I need to moan, often quite loudly as I approach my orgasm.

  • I used to be quiet because I was focusing on the sensations and sounds but I guess I know what to expect now so don't put any effort into keeping quiet.

    • That is such a hot explanation.🔥

    • Why, thank you!

  • Everyone is different, some women it is had to tell when they cum, others the neighbors know when she does and everything in between.
    At least with guys there is a for sure giveaway that they had a happy ending.

  • not sure about others but i like to moan loudly when cumming... both during sex and masturbation :)

  • I do because I know it turns women on.

  • I'll never understand why women want men to be women

    • Interesting take on it.

  • I'm dgaf! I'm vocal!

  • Some are vocal others aren't just way it is can be quite but like to moan be loud

  • Because men feel about 8 to 11 times less than girls do during intercourse, and by ourselves, we feel even less..

    • Never heard that.

    • Of course, not because men problems or sexual preferences, or anything else is irrelevant.. is 21st century.

  • Many of us felt we had to be quiet when we first discovered masterbation, so it is still ingrained in many of us

    • I'm hearing that more and more. It's too bad men have been repressed in that way.

    • It's not that we've been repressed, but we were trying not to get caught as teenagers

    • Ok. I get it. Things that we couldn't be open about when we were much younger do have a way of sticking in our psyche.

  • I do. . . she lets you watch them?

    • She does. I'm bi.

    • 👀 that's awesome lol

  • Maybe its the porn that made people believe this. Im very quiet when I cum.

    • I guess that's true as well. We all like different things. I just think guys' voices are so sexy when they are experiencing extreme pleasure. Or talking all out of breath from lust or exertion.

    • It is sexy for men to hear women breath heavy to.

  • Hard to be quiet sometimes, I really don't know or care what other men do... when I was first married i was really loud.

  • It depends with who I am hahaha

  • Unlucky! some guys act natural and some act like mute machine. boring!

    • shares you some more in private, check it!

  • Not all of us grunt and moan, sometimes I do if I’m getting a good bj or masturbate with long edging

  • I honestly think guys are different. Some guys have greater sensations down there then others. For me it depends how deep I can go inside a woman. I'm really thick, but if I manage get my cock deep inside my partner then it starts to feel very tight but at the same time intense and very pleasurable. Once I cum, then I start to moan. I can't help it. It feels that good

  • Why don't all girls have the same size boobs?

  • Well the question I have is why do girls moan loud in the first place?

    I mean it's super hot to hear you girls moan , but I've never felt like moaning ever during masturbation or sex

    • No sounds at all?

    • Well during sex , I would include frequent dirty talks During masturbation, nothing.. just stroke, cum, finish LOL

    • I love dirty talk. I moan loud because I'm so turned on, and some guys fuck me so good I just need to. Really hot dirty talk on top of him knowing what to do with his tongue and cock.

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